Orgasm

[Bikini650]

Ok this may sound strange , that is this late in life i'd be thinking about it.
How many guys here actually feel when they have and orgasm. I'm 59 and can honestly say Ive one real felt one where I seen stars and that was about two months ago. I know guys have orgasm before they ejaculate but do you feel it.

[Unregistered]

I can't imagine not having a toe curling orgasm when I cum! The orgasm is less when I'm jacking off than when I'm having sex with somebody else, but it starts great and goes up from there!

Maybe you just need more stimulation. I remember well the first time I got a bj -- they guy massaged my balls with one hand, while he explored my arse with the other hand, and skillfully massaged my cock with his mouth. I thought I was going to explode! And then I did.

[HalcyonMan]

Ok this may sound strange , that is this late in life i'd be thinking about it.
How many guys here actually feel when they have and orgasm.

I have had many different experiences throughout my life. I am 41 years old. When masturbating, I often just get a nut and no stars.

When I am reading this board, I just play with myself without the intent to just get a quick nut. When I do that, I often get to the point of orgasm, or cumming, and let go of my dick and move to my nuts for a minute. After a while of repeatedly doing that, I finally let myself go and have what I call a multiple orgasm and really see stars. After I shoot, I keep working on the head just below the corona, despite the sensitivity, and continually feel like I am going to ejaculate again and again! It is the most euphoric feeling. Many guys call this edging.

Now when I am having sex with my partner, I can usually get to the point of almost feeling faint. It doesn't matter if we are mutually masturbating, frotting (is that a word?) or getting down and dirty.

It's all about exploring yourself in different ways to figure out what feels best. Try it! :blowme

HalcyonMan

[Onan]

It all depends on my imagination. I have the best orgasms simply imagining men desiring men. That totally turns me on. I especially think about the men I have seen going quite a lenght to obtain sexual satisfaction. I have a few friends who told me about their sex drive and sex life and that has always been the thing that impresses me most in men. That sex drive! So, I think about that when wanking. A good orgasm is only a question of imagination.

When I am with a man, I never hesitate to do whatever he wants to satisfy him, although I have a few limits, but men always respect them. When the man lacks imagination or has no special demands, I come with something. Sex is an art form. Seeing a man taking his pleasure makes my orgasm complete, but always imagination first. Some men have poor sex lifes, others very rich ones with lots of imagination.

[Unregistered]

I get them both when masturbating and sex...I have even had one while my guy was inside me...that was the most intense I have ever felt.

[dayne]

If one really goes with it, I think he should have multiple orgasms. It is like a gun that just keeps firing. At times this has caused my sex partners some real concern. A person cam be exhausted just from the orgasms themselves.

I know I am not typical at all in having multiple orgasms, but I;d never give up the experience!

[Unregistered]

Over the years (I am 63) I have experimented with masturbation and have discovered multiple orgasms by "edging," which is reaching almost the point of no return and then stopping, savoring the tingling, throbbing sensations in the genitals and the prostate. Once these have subsided, you can build again, repeating the process as many times as you like until you decide to pass over and ejaculate, usually in sweeping spasms of intense supernovas. The line between orgasm and ejaculation is very fine; it takes practice, exploring, and patience. It is a fine art which pays unforgettable dividends. Rob

[SweatyAussie]

I am not sure I understood correctly the question that started this thread, but I interpreted it as asking do you always have an orgasm, or an intense orgasm, when you ejaculate.

I know that sexologists distinguish between the two, and say that you can have either one without the other, but I am not sure of the precise definition of "orgasm". ("Ejaculate" is pretty obvious.) My own experience is that I always have what I call an orgasm when I cum, but sometimes the orgasm is less intense than other times. I also know that I get very excited prior to cumming, and love to prolong that feeling by delaying ejaculation ("edging"). However I would not have called this orgasm. To me, orgasm is when you get more and more excited, heart races, breathing is rapid etc. then you reach a peak and slow down (which happens when I cum). It is probably more a matter of terminology than anything.

Also - call me weird - I have never seen stars at orgasm.

[BigPete]

Weird question.
I "feel" every orgasm. How can you cum and not feel it ?
More intense during sex than masturbating ... still pretty intense when I jerk.
With a guy inside me it's the most intense.
The thing is, when you fuck a guy or get fucked ... the moment the "bottom" cums ... the top needs to pick up speed ... go extra deep, fast and hard ... makes me shoot like there's no tomorrow.

[BigPete]

I am not sure I understood correctly the question that started this thread, but I interpreted it as asking do you always have an orgasm, or an intense orgasm, when you ejaculate.

I know that sexologists distinguish between the two, and say that you can have either one without the other, but I am not sure of the precise definition of "orgasm". ("Ejaculate" is pretty obvious.) My own experience is that I always have what I call an orgasm when I cum, but sometimes the orgasm is less intense than other times. I also know that I get very excited prior to cumming, and love to prolong that feeling by delaying ejaculation ("edging"). However I would not have called this orgasm. To me, orgasm is when you get more and more excited, heart races, breathing is rapid etc. then you reach a peak and slow down (which happens when I cum). It is probably more a matter of terminology than anything.

Also - call me weird - I have never seen stars at orgasm.

Stars in maybe like feeling dizzy ...
I had sex where I'm so much into the guy, where you fuck each other silly ... that when I/we came it was pretty intense and mind ... eh blowing.