Would you let a gay or bi male suck you....

[baker1968]

I am Bi and enjoy sucking off straight men, or at least men who claim to be straight....

[thongs4guys]

That would depend on the person and how bad they might like too. :blowme I'd like it while I'm showering off! :D

[SmoothChris]

I take it that the question is really: 'If you were straight....'
If that's the case, and the offer was coming from a really gorgeous man, the answer has to be 'yes'. Otherwise, how could I know what I'd been missing, and how could I be sure that I was straight? It's highly likely that such an experience would confirm that I am bi - which I am. :hump

[deadgoodundiesdotcom]

My answer is nope im straight and blowjobs just tickle too much after 3 secs im pulling off.

[Unregistered]

What mean "blowjobs just tickle too much after 3 secs im pulling off"

Pulling off - is that another euphemism?

[deadgoodundiesdotcom]

No it just means im incredibily tickilish down below so any more than 3 secs and im pissing myself laughing and have to remove myself.

[SexyThong]

I think that if one would allow this to happen, then you're not really 'straight' by definition!

[deadgoodundiesdotcom]

I suppose it's how you define sexuality though.
Are you gay if you prefer sex with men over women or are you gay if you just have sex with men instead of women.

or another take on it would be are you gay if you have once had sex with a man but for the rest of your life you slept with and found women exclusivley attractive?

I don't know it's all too confusing for me - I like to just stick with gay,straight who cares as long as you are having fun.

[SexyThong]

Well...for me, I have been with both, and given that it may seem strange, I like to have (normal) sex w/ girls and like to be on the receiving end with guys. I guess that's why I'm in the gym all the time on the stairmaster ;)
But I think that there are so many shades of grey with the gay/bi/str8 labels as people have all sorts of preferences.
If a guy likes to be with both in ANY capacity, then I say that he's 'bi' to some extent.

[Woody]

Yes I would and have.The few guys that I have hooked up with over the years have all been good friends and some considered themselves to be totally straight.To me any guy who is into women and also enjoys sucking a dudes cock or having his cock sucked is bi.

[Unregistered]

I'm straight, but I think if the opportunity presented itself, I would rather do the sucking than be sucked. The other way is too intimate for me.

[Onan]

I'm straight, but I think if the opportunity presented itself, I would rather do the sucking than be sucked. The other way is too intimate for me.

Nice, but i suck straights as well.

[Topper Don]

I am straight but the idea is intresting.

[dayne]

It has always been my experience that straight guys would always prefer to suck and be fucked. Most people take one look at my size and it seems that's the way they always want to go, straight or gay. Pity because I've been told I am a good little cocksucker or Hoover for short.

[tonton]

I'm most interested in smoothchris' answer. I'm straight and I have an apparently standing offer from a really gorgeous guy. But really I don't think I would do it, because, well, I'm straight and I know it. I think to let him think he could "convert me" might be misleading, and I don't want him to feel used.

But still, I've never had a really, really great blowjob from a woman before, either. I'm always disappointed. Not deep enough, didn't use her hands enough, didn't play with the balls enough, etc. They all seem to just put the head in their mouth and use their tongue in just that area instead of paying attention to the whole package. Maybe gay guys are just better at it, and maybe I should give it a try for that reason (if I can stay hard).

Maybe I'm just not a blowjob type of guy. I love vaginal intercourse and going down on a woman. I've never ever failed to get it up with a woman. I don't like anal sex with women. I don't really like blowjobs from women, and I don't like to be anally penetrated, so it doesn't seem like I'd be a very good homosexual. However, I think I'd be better at giving blowjobs than any women I've been with (only about 20 or so), but the thought of going down on a man is really strange for me.

[The Bondsman]

It is my considered opinion, ...and you may quote me, ....that everyone, ...EVERYONE, should experience the extreme satisfaction of having a really nice penis in one's mouth at least ONCE in their life! It just seems to fit so well and be an incredible turn-on. FAR in excess of sucking on a female breast which just has "babyish" overtones for me.
Go for it, ...try it once, ...doesn't mean you're gay, ..but I bet you will enjoy it and even find it strangely erotic!
And BTW, gay men are way better at it than women. They instinctively know that it involves FAR more than just a perfunctory mouthing of the head!

[deusex]

I'm most interested in smoothchris' answer. I'm straight and I have an apparently standing offer from a really gorgeous guy. But really I don't think I would do it, because, well, I'm straight and I know it. I think to let him think he could "convert me" might be misleading, and I don't want him to feel used.

Sounds like you're a very decent guy. If his intentions are to "convert you" then that's just ridiculous though. If you're straight, you're straight. People don't turn gay. They are gay.

However, I do agree with Bondsman as well. Recieving pleasure (with no strings attached) from another person is worth the experience. It has nothing to do with gay/straight only with human interaction - which I think is a beautiful thing.

I'm gay, but I've had sex with women. I'd do it again if the situation was right. Does that mena I'm straigh or even Bi? Not at all. Women don't "turn me on" but they don't disgust me either. Life is way to short to turn away interesting experiences.

[nutnuzzler]

.... I don't like to be anally penetrated, so it doesn't seem like I'd be a very good homosexual.
Just for the record, I don't like to be anally penetrated either, but I think I am a very GOOD homosexual. :) Do what you feel comfortable doing.

[The Bondsman]

I aree with you nutnuzzler. Many str8 guys seem to assume that ALL gay guys do anal sex. While I certainly do, ......many of us don't care for it. It's not de rigeur! You can be gay and not do it, .....but I still think you might be missing out on something!!! :D :D :cool:

[AZTanDan]

This is how I became bi. Went to a party with my wife, both got a little (yeah right!) drunk, next thing I knew, some guy was showing my wife how to give good head.

[nutnuzzler]

I aree with you nutnuzzler. Many str8 guys seem to assume that ALL gay guys do anal sex. While I certainly do, ......many of us don't care for it. It's not de rigeur! You can be gay and not do it, .....but I still think you might be missing out on something!!! :D :D :cool:

For the record, I have tried it, more than once, and no, I'm not interested. :moon NOT! :blowme for me!

[SmoothChris]

Being sucked and swallowed by an experienced guy is such an exquisite pleasure that it would be a terrible shame to miss out, whatever one's orientation. Being bi, I can say from experience - the guys are much better at it because they know what I'm feeling.

[dayne]

I am bi also and I agree with you about an experienced guy.

I have only run into one woman who could ever compare to a guy. She was a total nymphomaniac, but then her husband was the same. He was good, but she had him beat.

[coldshower]

I’m straight also, but do like to experience new things. I guess it would depend where I’m at in life if the opportunity became available. I was approached in the past, but declined, just didn’t feel right at the time. I’m into underwear and like looking at naked men, but not interested in anything further.

[thongs4guys]

I'm str8 but have thought of it more since visiting this site and hearing your comments and experience but for sure he'd have to deepthroat and swallow! It would be my first.

[Nakedsurfer]

I have had many fantasies of giving a blowjob to the right guy. I am married and love women but I have always wondered what it would be like to touch and taste another mans penis. My wife would be mortified. I enjoy pictures of men in a variety of underwear and nude. I guess I would say that I wouldn't know where or how to find that guy and if I did would I have the nerve to go through with it? :confused:

[thongs4guys]

I have had many fantasies of giving a blowjob to the right guy. I am married and love women but I have always wondered what it would be like to touch and taste another mans penis. My wife would be mortified. I enjoy pictures of men in a variety of underwear and nude. I guess I would say that I wouldn't know where or how to find that guy and if I did would I have the nerve to go through with it? :confused:


Same here Nakedsurfer...also about having a guy suck my cock. :blowme

[The Bondsman]

Without meaning any offence, it does seem a terrible pity you two guys above (Nakedsurfer and thongs4guys), can't arrange to meet up and fulfill your fantasies with each other, ....guilt free, as you both come from very similar situations. You already share an underwear interest,.....and the curiosity about oral sex could so easily follow from that.
You could then return to your marriages having satisfied your growing curiosity and resume "normal" life.
Of course, there's always the risk you may decide you REALLY like it, (a lot!), and then............ :confused: ;)

[Aussie_swim]

My first post here!

I fall into the same category as Nakedsurfer and thongs4guys. A question out of curiosity, how does a "straight" guy get to experience a no-strings-attached-I'm-just-curious-BJ from another guy?

[The Bondsman]

A question out of curiosity, how does a "straight" guy get to experience a no-strings-attached-I'm-just-curious-BJ from another guy?
Now without wishing to denigrate fellow members of my sexuality, but getting a BJ from a gay man would seem to be just about a certainty, unless you're Quasimodo's brother, ....and even then there are certain dark rooms for those of us less beautiful.
Gay sex is often criticised for it's "just-for-the-moment" aspect, ....but this could be just what you want.
Pay your money and visit a gay sauna, ....stand there for a little while and don't push people away in fear, choose someone you like the look of, and let them proceed.
It's my guess you'll soon have about all the BJ's you can handle.
When you've experienced enough, simply put your clothes on and leave. No strings attached, ....or expected.
Hope you get an expert! LOL!!! :D

[littlemonster]

Or, just ask someone unattached if they'll give you a blow job with no strings. I wouldn't have a problem with that if I was in Australia.

[grh31]

Well said Bondsman. Lets just say that men give the best blow jobs because they know what feels best. We work the whole package and not just the head. I just wish I had a hot friend that would give me a standing invitation for oral... or anything else.

[dayne]

I never met a man who thought a blow job meant blowing as in blowing out a candle. This is based on an actually occurance between a male and a female.

That is scary! :eek:

[rignon]

I'm straight and have been interested in being with a man for a while. Unfortunately I have not had the guts to go out and pursue it past looking at pictures on the internet. Not even sure I could go through with it if the opportunity came, but it is fun to dream about.

[BigPete]

Straight guys are complicated (well at least some are, or alot maybe)
I'm experiencing this at the moment.
I met this guy at work and we really got along very well, from the very beginning.
He changed jobs but our friendship got tighter.
I think I am his first gay friend. He's completely fine with it.
He's straight and married and sex mad. Loves to talk about sex.
Ofcourse with me ... over the years he's opened up and is not afraid to talk freely about his sexual desires and needs.

Basicly, I think he finds it very conforting he can talk to another man ... basicly about feelings ... I don't think he has much experience with that.
That's what I mean with opening up ... he trusts me ... and we are very open towards each other.

We have seen each other naked and I got the feeling he was enjoying that.
First joking around then more serious. We talked about masturbating, shaving, dicksize and have compared things.

We didn't go any further ... there have been some occassions, but I just never went for it ... bit afraid this could mean the end of our friendship.

We'll see.

[rignon]

Straight guys are complicated (well at least some are, or alot maybe)

Basicly, I think he finds it very conforting he can talk to another man ... basicly about feelings ... I don't think he has much experience with that.
That's what I mean with opening up ... he trusts me ... and we are very open towards each other.
We'll see.

That is really cool. Right now I don't have anyone I feel I can really open up with, male or female. A lot of it is likely my fault because I am not comfortable talking about my feelings on more than a superficial level, though I am trying to change and be more open. Hopefully I can someday have a friendship as open as yours someday.

[The Bondsman]

This is just so sad. The quote below just seems to sum up our western cultural view so aptly. Intimacy between men in the west just seems to make people uncomfortable, even if it's not sexual.

Why is it that, as a culture, we are more comfortable seeing two men holding guns than holding hands?
(Originally posted by Ernest Gaines)

[BigPete]

This is just so sad. The quote below just seems to sum up our western cultural view so aptly. Intimacy between men in the west just seems to make people uncomfortable, even if it's not sexual.

Why is it that, as a culture, we are more comfortable seeing two men holding guns than holding hands?
(Originally posted by Ernest Gaines)

Depends, in the French part of Belgium men tend to kiss each other on the cheek when they meet. Good friends ... but also in a casual way. Straight guys, gay guys, big guys, small guys ... no matter. Nobody thinks that's akward or weird. So it all depends on what you are used too and on your culture.

[numskull]

i have to agree with lots of straight guys on here, bjs from girls can be lack-luster and i wouldnt be against a guy suckign me off. Just as long as he was respectful to me as i would be to him. I think sometimes that it's unfair that girls can fool around with each other and it be hot. But when i guy does it he is gay! Not true, i've jo'd with a guy online after showing off underwear collections but i love the pussy still and i will always! maybe you guys need to set up a place were us straight guys can come and expierence what we have been missing. I would be there!

[The Bondsman]

i wouldnt be against a guy suckign me off. Just as long as he was respectful to me as i would be to him.

Respectful? To you?
He's sucking your dick! It's a bit hard, (and rude), to abuse someone with your mouth full! ;)
I be FAR more interested as to whether you yourself would return the favour? Sex is a two way street, ...and while it's nice to lay back and enjoy the attention, it's certainly disrespectful to play the line, "I don't mind a gay guy sucking me off, ....just as long as I don't have to do anything back to him!"
Believe me, that attitude's out there.

I think sometimes that it's unfair that girls can fool around with each other and it be hot. But when i guy does it he is gay!

And whose perception is this??? :confused:
Double-standard str8 men, that's who! They are turned on by lesbians, ...or what passes for lesbians in their videos and mags. "Hetero-Lesbians" I call them, ...because they bare little resemblance to the actual thing. A REAL dyke would sooner give a man a swift kick in the balls rather than a root!
Women do NOT tend to become lesbians due to any lack of hetero men.

maybe you guys need to set up a place were us straight guys can come and expierence what we have been missing. I would be there!

A sort of "freebie-for-str8s brothel"?
In my world, ...you wanna play the game, even though you may be a total novice, you become a participator, ....not a lay-back, no-hands-on recipient of the gratis, non-reciprocal, masterful technique experience!
That's the thing about male-to-male sex, ....he has the same needs and desires as you do, and what feels good to you, will probably feel just as good to him too.
:blowme One of the most satisfying BJ's I ever received was also probably one of the least competent. It was administered by a str8 guy returning the favour, the night before his wedding, and I knew he'd never done it before, but his heart was in it and he was trying so hard to please me that it just seemed so wonderful. He even "swallowed" too, despite my warning him of the imminent event, so he was certainly no non-reciprocator when he tried the other team.

[dayne]

Depending on his attitude, there are times when I have no desire to have a guy return the favor so to speak. I am getting what I want at that particular momant and I may not want there to be more than that.

[SAinNL]

a loud amen(or is ti ah-men!) to that > so tired of the lame excuses closeted straight men come up with to get off> abuse is abuse -sorry but pls look at clinical and DSM classification codes> as soon as a "straight"guy 'gets it up cause a mouth is a mouth"(lame one btw ! ) he ceases to be straight !!
have had my share of "straight"guys ( actually have 'done 'one for the past six yrs-yeah the first time was somewhat of a ego-boost(sic one i agree!) > but, if i look back at the pattern of our encounters and what made it less and less appealing was for 6 yrs NO form of reciprication(sp?) - so if i am going to suck the same "str8"cock for six yrs .....why am i calling it straight ??

[deusex]

I think with all the information we have now, it's impossible to try to pigeon hole people as straight or gay with nothing in between. I think the real issue is having to put labels on people because of their actions. To say a straight guy is no longer straight because he let some other guy suck him off is ridiculous.

Case in point:

My best "straight" friend and I got high one night and came home after a party. I was feeling horny so I asked him if I could play with his dick. He said ok, and I ended up giving him a blowjob. I wanted to do it, I expected nothing in return and I enjoyed it immensily - so did he. It never happened again either with me or anyone else but we joke about it to this day years later. So - let's see - he got a hardon - does that means he's not straight? I can vouch for him - he's straight. He's just open minded and was willing to try something different.

SAinNL,

If it went on for years for you and you wanted something more from it, then you were right to end it. As for your friend, only you would know if he was straight or closeted. With my friend, I didn't expect anything more. I enjoy giving head.

IMHO - people are diverse. There are gay people who have experimented with heterosexual sex, straight people who experiment with gay sex. Gay people who have issues and only get head and straight guys who just lie there. Bi guys who go equally both ways and even guys who are assexual...etc. I just don't think it's black and white and that there is even a need to label.

[lycrafetish]

It has always been my experience that straight guys would always prefer to suck and be fucked. Most people take one look at my size and it seems that's the way they always want to go, straight or gay. Pity because I've been told I am a good little cocksucker or Hoover for short.
I agree. I think I want to suck rather than be sucked. I am rather sensitive that way, but only women have tried.. I do fancy being screwed as you say..

[dayne]

You are quite right about the classification codes.


the ? is why are you still doing it?

[SmoothChris]

One day last summer I was sunbathing naked on a local beach - the quiet end where nudity is accepted. A guy came along, saw me there and came to chat. He seemed nice, and I invited him to join me. He stripped off, and I could tell from the complete lack of tanlines that he spent a lot of time naked in the sun. After a bit we talked about our sexual preferences, and he professed to be straight with a current girlfriend. He said that he'd never had any kind of sex with another man, and was curious as to what it would be like - especially being sucked. I told him a bit about my experiences, and I could see that he was getting very aroused. He was watching my cock, which by now was getting fairly hard. I suggested that he might like to find out, and he grinned at me. So I took him in hand and gave him what he wanted. After about half an hour I finally let him come, and while he was recovering asked him 'Well, how did that compare with what your girlfriend does to you?'
'Fantastic' he said. 'No comparison'.
I've seen him on the beach a few times since, and he always comes to chat. He often says what a lovely blow job I gave him, but has never wanted a repeat performance. Perhaps he taught his girlfriend the things I'd taught him, so now he's got the best of both worlds. Pity really - he's a lovely man with a body to die for.

[thongs4guys]

All night long...... :blowme anyone interested in my cock??? Str8 but I'd like to feel how good a guy can suck cock. :D

[SAinNL]

You are quite right about the classification codes.


the ? is why are you still doing it?
sorry english not my first language> thought i had made it clear in wording of my posting that i after 6 yrs of doing it ended it since hey! if you come back for 6YRS!! are you still str8? > LOL> i supose the "kick "was over ... strangely enough had a call from him recently(*hmmm did i get him addicted? LOL*) but kindly refused offer> i suppose "my "new approach to this topic is if i do "STR8"cock more than once it ceases to be so ... obviously ceased to be so the moment it touched my lips anyway! LOL
...hope this answers your Q??

[dayne]

I don't think it is your English. I probably misread your post.

Glad you are going for better.

D.

[SAinNL]

Maybe would any of you guys like to :blowme this str8 guy?
darn! why are the good offers always so far away>? LOL

[nevermind]

I'd be there,too! bj from a guy is waaaaaay better, we know what we want and how to work it. Dude, I'd get u anytime!

i have to agree with lots of straight guys on here, bjs from girls can be lack-luster and i wouldnt be against a guy suckign me off. Just as long as he was respectful to me as i would be to him. I think sometimes that it's unfair that girls can fool around with each other and it be hot. But when i guy does it he is gay! Not true, i've jo'd with a guy online after showing off underwear collections but i love the pussy still and i will always! maybe you guys need to set up a place were us straight guys can come and expierence what we have been missing. I would be there!

[tom]

Bit late on this one but nevertheless an interesting topic.

I think from the straight [sic] perspective that this quote from Numskull has most of it, although I'm not sure about the last bit....

i have to agree with lots of straight guys on here, bjs from girls can be lack-luster and i wouldnt be against a guy suckign me off. Just as long as he was respectful to me as i would be to him. I think sometimes that it's unfair that girls can fool around with each other and it be hot. But when i guy does it he is gay! Not true, i've jo'd with a guy online after showing off underwear collections but i love the pussy still and i will always! maybe you guys need to set up a place were us straight guys can come and expierence what we have been missing. I would be there!

Although, having broadly gone along with that I can also see The Bondsman's view when he say's
In my world, ...you wanna play the game, even though you may be a total novice, you become a participator, ....not a lay-back, no-hands-on recipient of the gratis, non-reciprocal, masterful technique experience!
That's the thing about male-to-male sex, ....he has the same needs and desires as you do, and what feels good to you, will probably feel just as good to him too.

So where do I stand? I don't know, but I do now seem to be in gay-ish world with my love of undies and self-abuse :bath: and I must confess to naughty undies things on line :rolleyes: So, maybe if I am honest, honest, honest with myself I am afraid of ruining what I have, dare I dabble in the flesh and find I like it - or, could that just be a side effect of always having being (and wanting to be) faithful to my wife :confused:

I missed out on the practical lessons when the subject came up at school :hump: and always regretted it... maybe then I might have know what I was\wasnot missing :o

God, this is getting heavy and maybe not quite the right place for deep thoughts... :eek:

I would appreciate some more input from you guys.

[thongs4guys]

Quote:
Originally Posted by numskull
i have to agree with lots of straight guys on here, bjs from girls can be lack-luster and i wouldnt be against a guy suckign me off. Just as long as he was respectful to me as i would be to him. I think sometimes that it's unfair that girls can fool around with each other and it be hot. But when i guy does it he is gay! Not true, i've jo'd with a guy online after showing off underwear collections but i love the pussy still and i will always! maybe you guys need to set up a place were us straight guys can come and expierence what we have been missing. I would be there!


I would agree numskull.

[SAinNL]

Bit late on this one but nevertheless an interesting topic.

I think from the straight [sic] perspective that this quote from Numskull has most of it, although I'm not sure about the last bit....



Although, having broadly gone along with that I can also see The Bondsman's view when he say's


So where do I stand? I don't know, but I do now seem to be in gay-ish world with my love of undies and self-abuse :bath: and I must confess to naughty undies things on line :rolleyes: So, maybe if I am honest, honest, honest with myself I am afraid of ruining what I have, dare I dabble in the flesh and find I like it - or, could that just be a side effect of always having being (and wanting to be) faithful to my wife :confused:

I missed out on the practical lessons when the subject came up at school :hump: and always regretted it... maybe then I might have know what I was\wasnot missing :o

God, this is getting heavy and maybe not quite the right place for deep thoughts... :eek:

I would appreciate some more input from you guys.
somehow the self knowledges of ones own sexuality and sexual pref's are known to the self ( sub-concious) by the look of your reply you are quite intouch with your pref's BUT have made a concious choice to remain faithful in it > shows character - i admire you for that -
and yeah! finally a topic with some depth !

[mariner]

Yes I'm in full agreement that a simple blow job by another guy is totally o.k. The only thing is it could lead to other more interesting things, like maybe anal fun and maybe more then just the two guys. I'm married but wonder what it would feel like to have my tonsils tickled, and see what the taste is like. I did once lick my fingers after I shot a load on myself and it did turn me on more. I guess I'll have to wait and see if the situation arises sometime. :blowme

[frosty_orca]

yes. but i honestly enjoy being the one giving more than receving. but i think thats because im a submisive in a lot of ways, that and im realy realy hard to get off... i dont think anyone has ever gotten my off with there mouth

[dayne]

My thought has been to be good at what I do. With a lot of practice I have learned to give a wicked blow job. Occasionally I find someone who gives a good blow job but because of my size (which doesn't seem to big to me) I limit a lot of people I guess.

I agree as to men givng better blow jobs than men. I knew one woman though who could match up to any man except one. I never felt anything like it. I lasted less than a minute-so not like me! Other than that one guy Shirley sould match up to anyone for what she could do. Truly the excption to the rule.

As to pussy, who says you would ever have to stop loving it if you enjoy blow jobs with guys? These are two entirely different subjects. As for me being shared by a guy and a gal can be one of my ultimate highs. But then, I really like three ways of any combination with the right people. :eek:

[dayne]

My thought has been to be good at what I do. With a lot of practice I have learned to give a wicked blow job. Occasionally I find someone who gives a good blow job but because of my size (which doesn't seem to big to me) I limit a lot of people I guess.

I agree as to men givng better blow jobs than men. Year ago I met a man who owned the Barracks in Los Angeles. I never felt anything like it. The suction was incredible! I lasted less than a minute and was drained when it was over.

Speaking of woman, other than that one guy, I knew of one woman who gave as good a blow job as any man I ever met. Shirley loved cock and I truly believe there are very few men str8 or gay that she wouldn't have satisfied.. I know most gay men are shaking their heads, but quite frankly she was incrdible! Her ideal was a cock in her ass, her cunt, one in her right hand and one or two in her mouth. She kept her right hand free for the last. Does that sound like most women you know? I was giving her husband head when she came in bedroom the first time and nobody had to tell her what to do. She went straight for me and...

As to pussy, why you would ever think you have to stop loving it if you enjoy blow jobs with guys? These are two entirely different subjects. As for me being shared by a guy and a gal can be one of my ultimate highs. But then, I really like three ways of any combination with the right people. Sometimes even more. :eek:

Main thing to remember is always be safe. Then you can just enjoy it for what it is without other worries.

[shortbutbig10]

my orientation is straight but having a big cock and being in the gym a lot leads to receiving blow jobs quite often.

[The Ejaculator]

could that just be a side effect of always having being (and wanting to be) faithful to my wife
Thankfully, my (current) wife has known all about the things I enjoy wearing and doing, since the first night we spent together after both having an afternoon with members of the same sex to get 'warmed up'.
But one of my male sex partners was in almost the same position as you seem to be.
The first thing is to talk to your wife about what you enjoy. A good moment is often in the heat of passion, when anything goes and you don't care quite as much.
You'll probably regret telling her some of the detail after the sex, but you're then committed and have little choice but to tell her the rest, which is good in the end.
Does she know you're a member here, for instance? Get her to sit with you and join in when you post here. Get her to work the video next time you have a wank in your favourite pair.
I'm lucky in that I'm allowed to do whatever I like with other guys and, in return, I let her have whatever fun she wants with her girlfriends. The only downside to that is not being with them to watch what goes on!
Suggest to your wife that she might like a similar arrangement. Perhaps show her this post. She can only say no, which leaves you in no worse a situation than you're in today.
My mate eventually found that being open about what he enjoyed lead to a far better sex life with both his girlfriend and his boyfriends.
Give it a try!

[rignon]

my orientation is straight but having a big cock and being in the gym a lot leads to receiving blow jobs quite often.
I must go to the wrong gyms :(

[buttbuster]

Am gay, always have been. Just because I was once married and have 4 boys, I still prefere a man's touch when it comes to messing with me
down below, front and rear.
It still takes a man to know how to please another man. That will never change.

[raven]

Iam also bi and like to suck

[thongs4guys]

Hey I'd return the favor...I have here lately thought of what it would feel like taking a large cock deep in my throat and having the same done to my cock!

[ca_boomer]

Interesting discussion, I would call myself straight, though in college, I did fool around with a room mate, well if we did not get any, we would help each other out, more that just wacking, we sucked, fucked, etc. we never kissed never wanted to. anyways was the only guy i did anything with, we enjoyed each other, 69 was not so fun, we focused on working each others dick so much 30 minutes later we were like dude are you gonna cum or what, by the way I swallowed.

[SFOwl1977]

hey ca_boomer,
i really appreciate your frankness re: your response to these posts. as for me, i identify as gay and enjoy having sexual/emotional contact with other men, but i certainly feel like there's room in this world for men to have sexual and/or emotional connections with other men without feeling a need or a want to align themselves with larger societal movements revolving around men who want to have sexual and/or emotional/intimate connections with other men and who want to confront societal issues that declare such as wrong or problematic. for me, i feel like the part of me that's sexually and emotionally interested in men is a fairly strong and dominant part of my sense of who i am, and i've lived my adult life advocating for my freedom to express these interests. but not everyone is like me, i realize, and i think it's important to validate the perspectives of those who don't feel as strongly about gay issues and gay rights and gay issues as i do, but who nonetheless acknowledge the part of themselves that desires to connect with other men on an emotional and/or sexual level.
anyway, i just wanted to thank you for sharing your experience. hearing stories like yours is one of the reasons i keep coming back to sites like these.
sfowl1977

[Letmeworshipit]

I am a gay guy and don't really care what the orientation of my top is as long as he loves the feeling of getting serviced and drained by an expert. I'm not one of those guys who loves to find straight guys to service. I prefer gay or bi guys who I can also kiss, pulling myself up from between their legs to affectionately kiss is a total turn-on. I, of course, resume my duties until the job is done...ha!

[jmother]

I think I would not mind a little sucking every now and then. Does it make me a bi ...?

[lancia]

why ask? all men and women for that matter are alike, we will seperate sex from love and to have sex is neither a gay or straight thing, but to love and be in love with the same gender is gay and so the sex has nothing to do with it. i i was to find a man to such me off god i would enjoy the experiance the same as if a woman was to do it

[MNthonger]

I would love a bi or gay guy to suck me off, I would love to try it, he must wear a thong while he is doing it.

[bigbob9]

When I was a teen, and even up to 21- I'd always thought of it. Fast fwd. to---- Staying with a really sexy call girl. She had a 'client' who wanted her and a 'well hung guy' . I gave her a pic of me bare ass and hard. He wanted to blow me while she blew him. WELL!!! To this day- I 'm so glad I didn't wuss out- it was the best blow job I'd ever had. And, he swallowed. Every drop! <G> BTW, I'd go by his place once a week or once a month,Alone! This went on for over ten years! So- hell yeah! Guys suck (big) dick better than most girls.

[Buldging_Briefs]

Interesting discussion indeed. First I should say that I am a gay man. Before I over came all the hang ups of my own sexuallity as well as the social effects of being true to myself and finally comming to terms with my sexuallality as a gay man I spent my fair share of time living a str8 life. So with plenty of experience on both playing fields I'll tell you some women give good head and others dont have a clue its just the same with men I've had some really bad blow jobs from members of both sexes.

Now I know the following comments are going to upset a lot of people here

but after reading all the post on gay str8 bi whatever one thought still boggles me Why would str8 men be here getting excited about seeing other men in underwear etc... now I know how hard it can be to struggle with your sexuallity and it takes a lot of balls to take the first steps to being with another man but if you are here enjoying this site and still claming to be st8 thats fine stay safe in your little cyber world you will never know how it feels to be free.

I dont think Ive expressed my point as well as I would've liked but I think you get the idea

[AZTanDan]

While I appreciate your views, I have to wonder why you should care why other men straight, bi or gay are on this site. They like it. You like it, at least I would presume so since your contributing. My view (for what it's worth) let people be who they want to be, let them look at what they wish, and let them wear what they wish to wear. I have no right to dictate my beliefs to anyone else, or vice-versa. Vive la difference!

[Buldging_Briefs]

I never said anything about caring wether str8 men enjoyed this site or not MY POINT IS HOW STR8 CAN YOU BE IF YOU ARE HERE ENJOYING THIS SITE???????

[Steveh9]

I'm married and bi - I loved it so much the first time I sucked a guy I knew i had to do it again and again. I love the feel of a dick in my mouth. Wife knows and approves and frequently is there with me - we've also met guys, like when we are on vacation at a hotel bar and brought them back to our room. They are quite surprised to be sucked with my wife there watching us and joining in with us.

[thongs4guys]

Wow! You are lucky to have your wife's approval and join in .. If that every happen to me... I'd be on my own. Anyone living in Louisiana that mine like to hookup??

[kiwi thonger]

I have always wanted to suck a cock and feel the cum erupt in my mouth .... and yes I would swallow ....

[trunkbrief]

I would do it without a doubt. I think about being with another man often. :)

[dirtyunderware]

:blowme you bet guys give a better bj them women

[jmark]

After reading all these post I almost shot a load. But, back on the subject, I never had the pleasure of a guy sucking my dick... and I bet a mostt any guy could do a good job, after all we know what we like I suppose. I as well have never had sucked a dick, and I bet it would be pretty good. I'd be willing to try it anyway. I think I'd be able to do a fairly good job. I don't really think its a gay thing so much as just what boys do in private. Let me know if Im wrong here. Anyway, whats it feel like to suck a dick???

[The Bondsman]

Anyway, whats it feel like to suck a dick???
Well, considering ALL guys have a dick, ...and just about everyone loves to have it sucked, I can't believe any guy who wants to experience this VERY enjoyable sensation, has SO much trouble finding a willing partner?
I have several srt8 friends, who after one of their regular famous hetero "prawn-&-porn" evenings, ...(at which I suffer a good deal of good-natured teasing), will try to get me to perform this little service for them, ......even offering to reciprocate!
BUT you certainly don't have to suck another str8 man, .....there are plenty of gay guys more than willing to let you do it!

[jmark]

Well, considering ALL guys have a dick, ...and just about everyone loves to have it sucked, I can't believe any guy who wants to experience this VERY enjoyable sensation, has SO much trouble finding a willing partner?
I have several srt8 friends, who after one of their regular famous hetero "prawn-&-porn" evenings, ...(at which I suffer a good deal of good-natured teasing), will try to get me to perform this little service for them, ......even offering to reciprocate!
BUT you certainly don't have to suck another str8 man, .....there are plenty of gay guys more than willing to let you do it!
So what do I do? I work out with five good buddies and we're pretty close friends, one or two more than the others. Do I just ask? How would I bring it up, the subject? My best friend is like super straight. But, he's got a fine looking dick, large balls too. He's not cut and I am so that makes me feel inferior to him for some reason... but anyway, I'd like to suck him mostly. So what do I say? What?

[The Bondsman]

But, he's got a fine looking dick, large balls too. He's not cut and I am so that makes me feel inferior to him for some reason..?
Well jmark, get rid of THAT feeling for a start!
Myself, along with many others actually FAR prefer "cut" to the "untidied" state of your mate! ;) (Now THAT little remark will stir 'em up, ...however it's true!) Who the hell started you out feeling like THAT!
. but anyway, I'd like to suck him mostly. So what do I say? What?
What's the difference between a str8 boy and a gay boy?
Oh, about 6 beers!
Seriously, .....what about suggesting you watch a new porn vid together you just happen to have come by. Make sure it is a str8 one that features a bit on the MEN with plenty of oral. Some do, others just seem to show the women, with men being secondary. Dim the lights,....provide plenty of his beverage of choice!!!
Let him see you see you are plainly "stiff" and "uncomfortable" in your pants.
Say, "I just gotta lose these pants, ...they are making me so damn uncomfortable".
Sit there in your underwear showing plenty of tent.
Then suggest that you don't really enjoy porn unless you can wank while watching.
By this stage, if you've provided enough booze and the movie's any good, he'll be rockhard too!
If he's getting that "squirmy" body language all guys get when they'd like a bit of extra dick-stimulation, try a bit of a rub of his mound.
His head goes back and the eyes close?
Down his briefs and let your instincts take over. He may not reciprocate and even feel a bit remorseful afterwards, but you will be smiling like the cat that got the cream by then!

[jmark]

OK so I took your advice! My best friend and I after all these years of thinking we were str8 for what ever thats worth had a damn good time last night! I sucked him dry and never thought it would be that good! Cum is GOOD! He in turn drained me very nicely and after a while we started all over again! Damn!

[The Bondsman]

Jmark, I am so very very glad to have been of service, ...actually I would have provided first hand demonstrations of technique had you been somewhat closer!
Still, I'm sure that those variations will be fun to discover for yourselves.
SO glad yet another two men have discovered the delights of having a penis in their mouths!
I read constantly that now teenagers engage in sucking so often most of 'em don't even consider it "sex"!
Why are you guys all lingering SO far behind? :confused:
If you want to do it, just do it, ...as some slogan for sub-standard shoes made in third world sweat shops by chained up three year olds says! But I digress....
Seduction of str8's can be fraught with all sorts of dangers, so start with someone more likely to be willing, and after you have confidence, let loose your technique upon the dicks of the world....!!!! ;) :D :D :D

[niceone2b]

I think with all the information we have now, it's impossible to try to pigeon hole people as straight or gay with nothing in between. I think the real issue is having to put labels on people because of their actions. To say a straight guy is no longer straight because he let some other guy suck him off is ridiculous.

Case in point:

My best "straight" friend and I got high one night and came home after a party. I was feeling horny so I asked him if I could play with his dick. He said ok, and I ended up giving him a blowjob. I wanted to do it, I expected nothing in return and I enjoyed it immensily - so did he. It never happened again either with me or anyone else but we joke about it to this day years later. So - let's see - he got a hardon - does that means he's not straight? I can vouch for him - he's straight. He's just open minded and was willing to try something different.

SAinNL,

If it went on for years for you and you wanted something more from it, then you were right to end it. As for your friend, only you would know if he was straight or closeted. With my friend, I didn't expect anything more. I enjoy giving head.

IMHO - people are diverse. There are gay people who have experimented with heterosexual sex, straight people who experiment with gay sex. Gay people who have issues and only get head and straight guys who just lie there. Bi guys who go equally both ways and even guys who are assexual...etc. I just don't think it's black and white and that there is even a need to label.


"LABELS ARE FOR JARS, LABELS ARE FOR CLOTHES......LABELS ARE NOT FOR PEOPLE!!!"~ MARTINA NAVRATILOVA :cool:

[The Bondsman]

"LABELS ARE FOR JARS, LABELS ARE FOR CLOTHES......LABELS ARE NOT FOR PEOPLE!!!"~ MARTINA NAVRATILOVA :cool:
Which, ...as we all know, ...always translates as "Yes, I'm so VERY, VERY gay!" ;) :D

[Aussie_swim]

This has been a very interesting thread. Bondsman and others have provided some useful and interesting advice to us "straight" guys.

I gave a mate ("mate" is Aussie slang for "friend") I haven't seen for years a call a few weeks ago. We used to wank together while watching porn. I asked if he was interesting in catching up "for old times sake".

It was interesting how the conversation quickly turned in to a deep-and-meaningful. It seems my mate always wanted to give me a BJ when we were wanking. He has asked me to come over so he can give me one. It seems I may have found a way to experience a BJ from a guy! I'm looking forward to catching up with my mate :blowme

[niceone2b]

Which, ...as we all know, ...always translates as "Yes, I'm so VERY, VERY gay!" ;) :D


Yes it is all in the translation :cool:

[AlanL]

When I thought I was straight I let several guys suck me off. Since I've figured out I'm bi I return the favor.

[t4gs]

Yes I would. :blowme Question is would any of you like to suck my cock?????????????