Underwear preference and sexuality...

[SexyThong]

Question for ALL of you out there: does underwear preference really imply sexuality? Are boxer wearers really conservative? are boxerbriefs wearers really only tops and the 'aggressor' in a relationship? Are bikini/jock/thong wearers the 'catchers' and bottoms in a relationship are are more feminine than everyone else?
Let us all know your thoughts!

[JohnH]

I'm sorry, but this poll, as currently formatted, is completely invalid. It doesn't offer for the possibility of boxer wearers who are basically, bottoms, or thong wearers who are basically tops. Also. . . . unless "jocks" is being used in the UK/AUS sense to mean briefs, how come briefs aren't an option? I also wouldn't describe boxers as necessarily a "conservative" u/w choice; certainly most wearers of boxers whom I know don't consider themselves--or their u/w--to be "conservative." And I also agree with the Bondsman and others who have objected to the whole "bottom/top" thing as being unnecessarily restrictive (though that may not be pertinent to this particular poll). Perhaps the poll could be judiciously edited to allow for more choices?

[deusex]

I have to agree with JohnH. I can't answer the poll - I'm basically a bottom but I wear absolutely everything - thongs, jocks, briefs, strings, boxerbriefs, and often none at all - really depends on my mood.

[TightHomThongUK]

Isn't it fascinating though how many of us are str8 and possibly happily married but also have this thing for thongs and sites like this??

That underwear gets us into trouble!
Dave

[tangafan]

Nowt wrong in being turned on by thongs and tangas. Its harmless and very, very horny. I have worn a tight thong today and its been a nice warm day and that thong strap felt nice in my seaty crack.

[AZTanDan]

Ya don't have my category... Wears Jocks, Thongs, Bikini's, and is BI!

[TightHomThongUK]

Dan, if those are your buns you are one lucky guy (but I guess you worked hard to get em).

On the topic: Any other str8 guys who are into thongs also want to meet other guys into thongs and just touch each other & get a bit messy together??

Am I bi-curious for wanting to do what I love to do (see other posts).

Horny for thongs,
Dave

[AZTanDan]

Yes they are mine, and yes it takes an awful lot of work. Cycling helps out a lot though. To bad your in the UK. A first timer would be a lot of fun :D

[KinkyLvr]

Yes Dan very nice ass and as far as me I'm new to the forums and really enjoy them. I like everything but womens underwear. I'm Bi and top and bottom.

See y'all around the forum

[coldshower]

I agree with you TightHomThongUK. I don't know why, but I really do enjoy sites like this. It must be the exhibitionist in me.

[benbanan]

Coldshower & TightHomThongUK I am with you - guess it is just liking to feel aroused - if sexy girls and good looking boys do it for us - mmmm

[deusex]

I think it's great that this site has attracted gay, straight and bi guys. If the world would reflect this site it would be such a better place. It's beyond tolerance which is what happens in most places, it's about acceptance and encouragement in our likes and differences.

[AZTanDan]

You said it. Only thing that applies is... AMEN!

[mikey73]

I can't answer this one either. I'm Bi, versitle and prefer to wear trunk briefs (basicly boxer biefs with a shorter leg like a square cut) I have and sometimes wear bikini briefs and I have some boxers and a thong or two. I don't like the traditional thighty whitey but they look good on some men.

[The Bondsman]

On the topic: Any other str8 guys who are into thongs also want to meet other guys into thongs and just touch each other & get a bit messy together??
Hold on, hold on, ....at the risk of being totally misunderstood by some here on the board,..... this is getting just a little confusing for me! :confused:
I certainly know lots of "str8 guys", ....and by definition (admittedly, before you attack, I could be wrong here now), ....but str8 guys don't seem to want to get "a bit messy" with other guys. That's if I understand the above euphemism correctly. :blowme
Now don't get me wrong here, ....anyone is perfectly free to do whatever to whomever, ....it's just the terminology used I find confusing.
Oh how the boundaries would seem to be blurring :confused: ........ maybe it's getting to the stage where the category "str8" no longer has any meaning?
We wish! ;)

[deusex]

Bondsman,

If we're to believe the work that Kinsey did oh so many years ago, then wouldn't it make sense that on a scale of one to six someone could be a two and still consider themselves straight?

[The Bondsman]

So am I to believe that there are now DEGREES of "straightness"??? :confused: :confused: :confused:

I would have thought that the category was like pregnancy, ....an absolute.
Surely if you are still "getting messy" with men after about about 18, you're no longer experimenting,.......you like it! And that's great!
At least have the honesty to use the rather loose blanket term "BISEXUAL", because you certainly ain't str8!.
I am a gay man, I frequently get messy with men, and I classify myself as "gay". Yes it's a label, but like most labels, it can serve a very useful purpose when females start getting a little too wet between the knees.
(And yes, it does happen from time to time to me, and certainly to my Boyf, who I like to think is a little ....OK, ...a LOT more attractive. ;) )
The simple statement of "We're gay" seems to prevent anyone making a further fool of themselves, ...just the same as if a guy says "I'm str8" to another guy getting a little too amorous.
No harm done, and no one gets hurt.
How the hell can gay men have any credibility or dignity if we go around hiding behind a fake str8 facade, while actively seeking other guys for sex?
Out here we have the bizarre phenomenon of a group who call themselves "men who have sex with men" .......but insist fervently that they're NOT gay!!! :shocked :confused: :confused: :mad: :mad: :mad:
Hello? Run that passed me again!
Men who have sex with men are "GAY" (or at the very least "bisexual", )......that's what the term means, ...and all the self denial in the world, all the rationalization and hiding behind a front somewhat larger than Mann's Chinese Theatre will not lessen, change or deflect the fact that what you are exhibiting is "gay behaviour".

Sooner or later you have to look in that mirror and say those three little words that signal a massive self realisation.

[deusex]

Why does a man who has sex with another man have to be gay? Can't they just be curious? Can't they just be open minded and willing to experience new things.

I do agree with you Bondsman, that guys who go around having regular sex with other guys are at least exhibiting "gay behaviour" but I just don't believe it's as black and white as most people say.

Just for the sake of the discussion I've had sex with a women. Once. I didn't enjoy it, but I had to try it. That doesn't make me bi-sexual. Did I exhibit "straight behaviour"? If you asked the woman she would most likely say "definitely not" as I just don't think she got a lot out of it. ;)

[The Bondsman]

Of course "One swallow does not a summer make", ........but when you start advertising for the whole flock to include you as a friendly roost on their migratory path, then you've certainly moved past the curious stage! ;)
I still have problems with men who are repeatedly having sex with other men identifying as str8..........what's wrong with "bi-sexual"? :confused:
I guess the parameters of str8 must have changed since I last looked.

Good grief, ....I just had a terrrible thought!!!!
If what you say is so, does this mean I'm str8???? :confused:
Me? But I don't want to be str8, ....ever! :eek: :eek: :eek:
I'll be in therapy having my gay genes re-inforced while the rest of you get back to the "underwear"! :D

[dayne]

Why not add a jock/thong masculine top listing? I am bi and am not a feminine bottom by any means. If were you add this to your survey it might give you a better over all picture of what the guys out there are wearing and how they behave.

For your consideration.

[blackstar]

No I dont think any of those things imply sexuality, I certainly would not like being labeled any those silly notions just cause I wear Briefs or Boxers.

[SAinNL]

strange thought while reading this
1) how easy it would be to recognise a mans sexuality by the choice of his underwear(e.g. all gay men would wear thongs strings str8's wear boxers and boring briefs>BUT then i would have to become a (masochist) straight chaser since i like wearing bikini briefs but get turned on by my partners bland/boring/regular briefs
2) the fag-bashing incidents would increase if above mentioned was put in place would it not>?

[rebel_heart]

i don't belong to any of the categories you provided. i kind of prefer wearing briefs and boxers or boxerbriefs but i don't really like to wear thongs or any super skimpy stuff although i am more of a bottom. :)

[vers29male]

I like to wear thongs, bikinis, boxerbriefs, g's and jockstraps, I am a bi versital male.

[Alien_Boy]

As a straight guy that seems to wear mostly boxers, I must admit a little curious to other styles. Maybe nothing as extreme as a thong, but if it truly is comfortable I might consider it. At the gym, I dont see too many guys in thongs but it must be popular but I just cant tell whos wearing them.

[thinstrap]

I've responded to a poll like this before.
I think hot underwear, thongs and g-strings aren't an indication of sexual preference....this web page proves it.
Straight, and love wearing them, looking at them, and showing them off!!
:cool:

[The Ejaculator]

I think hot underwear, thongs and g-strings aren't an indication of sexual preference.
I quite agree with you.
My preference is, most definitely, swimwear. The hotter, or tighter, the better.
Just about all the people I mix with are also into wearing swimwear during sex, yet I'm bisexual and my partners are bi, gay and straight.
My wife's also bi (thank goodness) but I have two other regular gay partners to add to the variety.
She also has a couple of partners, other than me, who are either bi or lesbian, I'm honestly not sure which.
We both know a few people who are also into the swimwear scene, but are extremely straight.
So you can't judge a really sexy bottom by what's covering it. You need to get inside and check!

[gardardottir]

I agree with several of you. There are missing several categories to be able to tell ANYTHING about underwear preferances vs. sexual preferances. Allthough a correctly made poll would most probably not have given an answer, either. ;)
It was also to me impossible to answer the poll, since I'm a heterophile and bisexual guy (feminine). (With that I mean that I would like to have sex with both women and men, but would prefer to live with a woman.)
There's also another aspect of this: If you watch my profile, you will see that I like many of the styles assosiated with gay or feminine men, and I like to wear one of those when I'm horny. But normally I wear boring, comfortable, "sensible" cotton bikini briefs with a fly in front. :shocked
I also think/know that what looks sexy on others, doesn't nessesarily look good on me... :(

Another thing I wonder, is that several gay men and women say that a gay or bi person can allways recognice another gay or bi person. I am bisexual, but I very often cannot recognise other gays or bi's, even if it's obvious to almost everyone else? If the man isn't overly feminine, or the woman is overly masculine, I may not even think about it. So, a question for all the gay or bi here: Do you recognise other persons of "our" kind? And, in that case; allways?

[The Bondsman]

So, a question for all the gay or bi here: Do you recognise other persons of "our" kind? And, in that case; always?
Well gardardottir, ...without blowing my own trumpet too loudly, I'd have to say "yes" I can certainly recognise others of "my" kind with surprising accuracy. At least my friends are surprised when I am proved correct.
And I do have to say it's certainly NOT about a guy acting feminine, or a girl acting butch, or even so much about what they wear, although it can be about HOW they wear it sometimes.
It's much more subtle, and has a lot to do with the eyes, and the reaction to yourself, and meeting your eyes, even if just in passing.
Of course there are the obvious ones that are obvious to anyone, but there are those who may just be curious, or holding a long standing desire to "try" it.
The MOST obvious ones are those who have spent FAR too long desperately trying to appear "straight",( those str8-acting fakers), and have reduced their performance to something far too studied. I call these the "seven dollar notes". They look OK on the surface at first glance, but there's something just not quite right with the whole appearance. DEAD give-away!

[hybrid0603]

Interesting results. While I agree that this poll does not consider all possible options, I am very surprised by the number of straight guys who wear thongs. For the record, I wear all types of tight underwear (but mostly thongs) and I am a bottom, but not (too) feminine.

[pouchlover53]

Hi

I'm hetro..married for over 30yrs. And my favourites are tight thongs. My wife and i choose together ( and vice versa). One doesnt need to be gay or bi. The thong is such an erotic style for any guy. And the tighter and briefer the better

[tom]

Bondsman, somehow you make recognising 'one' sound a bit like joining the masons, hehe well maybe the two run on parrallell lines :D

[The Bondsman]

Bondsman, somehow you make recognising 'one' sound a bit like joining the masons,
Well yes tom, there could be similarities.
We DO have our own special "handshake", ....and the initiation rituals are a guarded secret, but once in, you're in for life you know! ;)

[tom]

Mr B, well the rituals sound fun, it is your left breast you bare or something else :eek:

And, I think you have this bit wrong you're in for life you know! surely you mean OUT not in ;)

[eric2127]

During the winter I wear boxer briefs. But in the summer like best to let my cock & balls hang free. Wearing nothing is good for letting your dick bone up when it wants to.

[AndrewDelong]

Due to the limited polling options, I'd say I'm bottom/vers and briefs, jocks, thongs

[trunkbrief]

Dan, if those are your buns you are one lucky guy (but I guess you worked hard to get em).

On the topic: Any other str8 guys who are into thongs also want to meet other guys into thongs and just touch each other & get a bit messy together??

Am I bi-curious for wanting to do what I love to do (see other posts).

Horny for thongs,
Dave
Im married so i guess im curios to? dont mind looking at other men.

[brent4]

yes i love this site

[undieswhere]

Str8 male, happily married, never done anything with a guy other than watch porn together and jerk off in the same room. I wear thongs every day...

Had a thong in high school, wore it once and switched to boxers. After I got married, my wife "dared" me to wear one because I asked her to wear them all the time. Was uncomfortable at first, but loved it. Mostly loved the control it offers, not to mention the hidden sexiness of having it on...I will never switch back to boxers or regular briefs...

[Steveh9]

I'm married, we both wear thongs. Since I began wearing them I became more and more interested in other guys - loved seeing their cocks. Wife and I have watched bi porn together before and she noticed that I always got hard when guys were with guys, Then at a nude hot tub party, we had a who is bigger contest and I got to hold the guys dick next to me while he held mine - and I loved it. (wife held each of us too and declared him the winner, which he was as he has a lovely cock). She noticed how much I seemed to enjoy holding onto that guys cock and brought the subject up the next day - I told I noticed she was smiling too when she was holding both of us in her hands too. And the guy didn't seem to mind who was holding his cock - we were both so hard anyway. So, we invited him back the next weekend and got naked again. My wife was teasing and flirting with him all night and he got hard. We were sitting by each other on the edge of the hot tub, both hard and I grabbed my cock and his again. and began to stoke both of them - wife was sitting across from us just watching us. She liked what she saw and got in the tub, came over to me and started sucking me while i was stroking him - then I bent over and took him in my mouth with my wife sucking me. I loved the feel of it in my mouth. My wife then began to suck him with me. It was so good, the two of us sucking that dick.

[The Bondsman]

I'm married, we both wear thongs. Since I began wearing them I became more and more interested in other guys - loved seeing their cocks.
Hmmm, ...there would seem to be a warning here for all our str8 contributers.
Wearing thongs might just be responsible for "turning you gay"...or at least unleashing your homo-erotic tendencies!
Get out and buy yourselves a whole heap of thongs, guys, QUICK! :D