Dildos...are they that great??

[SexyThong]

OK, I'm pretty much a bottom, but have never really used a 'dildo' in the absence of male companionship. Who out there uses them and what sort of reasons why you use them? (feeling of having something 'back' there? prostate? feeling submissive???)
I have a plug and like to wear it in public sometimes with my thong just to be sneaky...lots of fun!

[The Bondsman]

"Plastic". has never done anything for me. If I'm in the mood for being "bottom", it's the whole mental feeling of it being the other guy's dick that's inside me that does it for me, .....NOT a foreign object.
Besides, some of those huge damn things are just plain scary! :eek: :moon :eek:

[Rimmer]

I love dildos and butt plugs and prostate massagers. Anything up my ass is better than nothing up my ass. My personal preference lately is the Aneros prostate massager. You have to really play with it but it is truly amazing. A dildo is nice if you want that feeling of fantasy and a beautiful huge cock sliding in your wet eager hole.

[Unregistered]

Hi Rimmer

I've recently bought an aneros. Not used it a lot, but I guess I'm a little disappointed with the results. Can you share a few tips. What position do you find best? How often are you using it? What are the results you're getting?

[Unregistered]

Agree that anything up the chute is great. Just like the feeling of being stuffed, but that's a "bottom trait". Have a couple dildo sizes, some just insert, some suctioncup to be ridden, some vibrate the prostate. Dildos don't have to be huge and scary to be enjoyed.

Question on wearing a plug while out and about. Would love to try this out, what size, brand, style works for you? Have cruised the "toy stores" and there are many options to choose from. What works best for you?

[SexyThong]

I like the doc johnson one that is purple jelly:

http://gay.dvdempire.com/Exec/v1_item.asp?partner_id=28207033&item_id=21996

if i'm going to wear it around :p

Hey, tell me more about the dildos with the suction cup bases...I have seen them but never heard of anyone using them.

[Unregistered]

Suction cup dildos (dongs) are the best if you have to / or want to fly solo or if you just like to bottom out.... get together with a regular buddy to just get raw and hang out. He brings his own set of toys along and we have our own fun in the shower or watching movies. I use my suction cup dildos sticking them to the coffee table riding them while whanking with my bud (ourselves or each other) as we ride watching each other or dvd's. Sometimes we hit the shower where the suction cup will stick to the shower wall tile. I have two favorites, one is 7" "usable" length, not too large around maybe 2" diameter, but has a more than usual obvious curve. I can position the curve so the head of the dildo hit's "the spot" for some massive, see the sparklies, cum-a-licious spews. Other fav is a 10" "useable" length, same diameter, but straighter. This one is my choice for when I'm on the coffee table. Have control on when/where/how it rides "the spot" or goes past the spot working it on the "to and fro" strokes. Also great excersiser to build up leg muscles for those longer "trailrides", and sphincter muscle control squeezin' and wheezin'. On the occasions we unplug the plastic and my buddy plugs me with the real thing, he says I got a hole with a grip tight enough to crack walnuts. Easy access for him from me working out with the "excersise equipment", but lord-almighty what a grip!!! Practice practice practice...

[SexyThong]

Suction cup dildos (dongs) are the best if you have to / or want to fly solo or if you just like to bottom out.... get together with a regular buddy to just get raw and hang out. He brings his own set of toys along and we have our own fun in the shower or watching movies. I use my suction cup dildos sticking them to the coffee table riding them while whanking with my bud (ourselves or each other) as we ride watching each other or dvd's. Sometimes we hit the shower where the suction cup will stick to the shower wall tile. I have two favorites, one is 7" "usable" length, not too large around maybe 2" diameter, but has a more than usual obvious curve. I can position the curve so the head of the dildo hit's "the spot" for some massive, see the sparklies, cum-a-licious spews. Other fav is a 10" "useable" length, same diameter, but straighter. This one is my choice for when I'm on the coffee table. Have control on when/where/how it rides "the spot" or goes past the spot working it on the "to and fro" strokes. Also great excersiser to build up leg muscles for those longer "trailrides", and sphincter muscle control squeezin' and wheezin'. On the occasions we unplug the plastic and my buddy plugs me with the real thing, he says I got a hole with a grip tight enough to crack walnuts. Easy access for him from me working out with the "excersise equipment", but lord-almighty what a grip!!! Practice practice practice...

Wow, that's getting turned on just thinking about that...I'll have to get one (or a few) of those too!!!

http://www.extremerestraints.com/stat/ds200.html
I kinda like this idea!

[Unregistered]

Hey SexyT: thanks for the info on DocJohnson plugs. Stopped by the specialty shop yesterday on the way home and picked up the purple jelly plug. Feels great... as it's "with" me at work today, as is my 1"w C Ring, all tucked away snug as a bug in my Unico white boxbrfs. Just feels yummy... been pokin' "semi hard" thru my Levis since getting out of the shower and dressed for sucksess today. Spending the day like this, I will be more than ready to have a "seat" with my other toys on the coffee table when I get home this evening. Practice practice practice....

[Onan]

When a guy wants to fuck me, I always ask him to prepare me with the anal probe:

http://www.sexherald.com/adult-toys/classic_anal_probe.html

But I am not actually anal. So, I never use it alone. I only rarely get fucked since guys respect it when you do not want to get fucked. I only do it with guys from whom I know they get really thrilled by it. Then it is a blast to give it to the guy.

[SexyThong]

When a guy wants to fuck me, I always ask him to prepare me with the anal probe:

http://www.sexherald.com/adult-toys/classic_anal_probe.html

But I am not actually anal. So, I never use it alone. I only rarely get fucked since guys respect it when you do not want to get fucked. I only do it with guys from whom I know they get really thrilled by it. Then it is a blast to give it to the guy.

Or let a guy 'give' it to you!

[Onan]

Yeee,of course. Nevertheless, you present your ass; you stick it out. There is a pleasure in "offering" or "giving" your ass when the guy is really hot on it. I know one who really is, but otherwise anal is hardly my thing. I am rather the fucker although I do more other sex than actual fucking.

[Woody]

Have a small collection of dildos and other sex toys, they are just part of sex for me.Do not use them all the time but there are moments where they make for an ok substitute.

[jmark]

"Plastic". has never done anything for me. If I'm in the mood for being "bottom", it's the whole mental feeling of it being the other guy's dick that's inside me that does it for me, .....NOT a foreign object.
Besides, some of those huge damn things are just plain scary! :eek: :moon :eek:
Maybe someday I'll know what it feels like to get a guy's dick inside me. Sounds like it must really be good. The only time anything ever went up my ass is when the doctor stuck his finger in. And, well that wasnt that great... So would, could anybody let me know what its like? Do you get off? I mean do you get off with something in you ass?

[tom]

A small one is fun, a big brightly coloured vibratory monster is total turn off!

[bike#10]

Me? I like them. Some of them, at least.

Like so many things in this world, it all depends. On you and on the dildo.

I personally prefer oral sex to anal, but I definitely enjoy some anal stimulation on occasion. While nothing can ever replace a real cock (that's a good thing, IMO), sometimes it's nice to have something stuffed into both ends at once even though there's only one other man present (my favorite scenario - so intimate!)

Some other times, there's no other man in the house at all. Jacking off is nice, but once again it's nice to have something to fill certain voids (ahem!)

A good dildo, at least as I see it, should be a nice size to fill you up, while not being too big. After all, most dildos are not as 'squishable' as a real cock. I know we all fantasize about 'rock-hard' erections, but the fact is that our cocks are seldom as hard as the materials that they use for most dildos and other sex toys.

Some of us, especially those of us who only enjoy anal sex periodically, need some loosening up before we can enjoy sex. Here again a properly-sized dildo can be of use.

Will dildos and other sex toys ever replace men? I sure hope not! However, I think they're a necessary part of any well-equipped toybox.

#10