Pssst! Prefer Underwear over Nakedness?

[Hilprinmor]

This is my second post.

The subject line I've put up covers (pun not intended) my 2 *very* curious questions:

1) Do you sleep with just your underwear on? Or do you sleep on your "birthday suit" (naked)?

2) For you gay men who have a fetish for underwear: when you have sex with your partner, are you more *turned on* when he's wearing underwear than when his naked?

I've read from a magazine (Men's Health?) that some men (straight/gay) who has a fetish for a type of clothing--- would prefer their partner to wear that type of clothing while having sex. It could be socks, or you guessed it... underwear!

Hilprinmor

[lycrathong]

In answer to your second question, I don't like my sexual partners to strip naked straight away. An ideal sex session will involve slow undressing down to skimpy underwear, followed by lots of foreplay. There's nothing quite like the sight of an erect cock inside a skimpy thong or bikini, and imagining what it will look like when extracted. I love sucking a guy's cock through his underwear, and being sucked myself. When it comes to fucking, I really fancy the sight of a nice ass framed by the straps of a jock.

So I guess you can say that I find underwear more erotic than complete nakedness.

[Micah]

(1) Always sleep in the nude. It's too confining otherwise. (2) Prefer a LOT of foreplay in underwear--me and him both. I also love chewing on a hot cock in a bikini, just massaging that hard mound through what little material there is, slipping my hands under the seams to play with a hot ass.... Well, you get the picture.

[showoffmark]

I prefer to sleep in underwear unless it is really hot then nude. I dislike the feeling of my dick and balls flopping around when I roll in bed.

I also enjoy my partners to be wearing underwear for foreplay. Imagining what is inside of the briefs/boxers/thong is part of the un. A guy in a thong or jockstrap is especially hot as I can enjoy his ass while his cock is still covered.

I have sucked off guys right through their speedos and fucked guys while they kept their cock in their jockstraps. So, yes, i have a big fetish for underwear.

[Micah]

Hey H. -- I showed you mine. You gotta show me your's. lol What are your preferences??

[Hilprinmor]

Great replies. Anyone else?

I know many men (straight and gay) that sleep in the nude. I sleep fully clothed; so I guess I'm in the minority on my first question. Then maybe not: I initially thought that I was in a minority when it comes to underwear fetish--- but since I've seen this website, I've discovered how wrong I was!

I agree that seeing your partner in underwear during foreplay/sex is a huge turn-on. It just makes your mind go wild, wondering how the penis looks on the other side of the cloth.

Let's summarize: I sleep fully clothed, and I prefer underwear over nakedness. Is there something wrong with me?

[Micah]

Why would you possibly think something is wrong with you?? You sleep how you're most comfortable, and you're in touch with your underwear fetish like the rest of us. Ain't nothing out of the ordinary there....

[NHundielover]

1) it depends - my boyfriend sleeps naked, so when i'm sleeping over at his house (or when he's sleeping over at mine) i'll sleep naked too. when i'm alone, sometimes i sleep naked or with only socks (it's getting colder at night around here); but i usually sleep in just briefs and socks.

2) yes, seeing my bf in nothing but tight underwear is more of turn on than seeing him naked, and i love foreplay in just underwear. sex & jockstraps is really hot too.:D

[Hilprinmor]

Originally posted by Micah
Why would you possibly think something is wrong with you?? You sleep how you're most comfortable, and you're in touch with your underwear fetish like the rest of us. Ain't nothing out of the ordinary there....

Hello, Micah.

Thanks for the assurance. :p

This little story will probably strike a familiar chord amongst you: I remember when I was 13 or 14 of having these wet dreams. You know...ejaculation during sleep. I wake up and feel the cum against my skin and just felt (gulp!) a little disgusted with that sticky feel.

That experience just made me want to sleep fully clothed even more. I hated the idea of having to have that cum on the bedsheets! Very awkward indeed, well at least back then.

:rolleyes:
Hilprinmor

[pnhmrk]

I normally sleep naked, unless I'm on my own and then I'll tend to sleep in briefs. I like the comfort of being naked (and the b/f sleeps naked) however I also enjoy the comfort of sleeping in my favourite underwear:p

My partner wears briefs, I enjoy seeing him in them but I also enjoy him out of them! I find his briefs (without him)a great turn on, especially if they've been worn!

[Jock's away]

Sometimes, during the summer I like to go commando.

You have to watch when your getting stiff as you have nothing to help keep it under control.

Here's one of when I was working at a hospital in Hull during the heatwave this year.

[Hilprinmor]

Originally posted by showoffmark
I prefer to sleep in underwear unless it is really hot then nude. I dislike the feeling of my dick and balls flopping around when I roll in bed.

I also enjoy my partners to be wearing underwear for foreplay. Imagining what is inside of the briefs/boxers/thong is part of the fun. A guy in a thong or jockstrap is especially hot as I can enjoy his ass while his cock is still covered.

I have sucked off guys right through their speedos and fucked guys while they kept their cock in their jockstraps. So, yes, i have a big fetish for underwear.

Wow, man.....those words really hit hard. :D
I have seen movies where the couple just strip to their birthday suits and do it. What's the fun in that? IMHO, the director (if there is one) :p should advise the couple to take their time.

How I wish they'd just stop right when they get to their underwear...and stay in them as looooooooonnnnng as it is possible.

Hilprinmor

[Unregistered]

Originally posted by Hilprinmor
Wow, man.....those words really hit hard. :D
I have seen movies where the couple just strip to their birthday suits and do it. What's the fun in that? IMHO, the director (if there is one) :p should advise the couple to take their time.

How I wish they'd just stop right when they get to their underwear...and stay in them as looooooooonnnnng as it is possible.

Hilprinmor

I'm with you. Underwear should be outerwear during those scenes.

[The Bondsman]

Hi Hilprinmor,
I've got to say that given my choice I FAR prefer to see a guy in his underwear that totally nude. There's a nude beach not far from where I live and to be frank, I find total nudity a little boring, ...or at least not all that arousing. And yet when I see a guy in a pair of sexy white briefs, well something just instantly snaps to attention, ...if you take my drift!
I guess its all in what the individual likes, but I too hate it when I buy a video that features heaps of underwear on the cover, only to find that it comes off very quick with the jeans or doesn't even feature AT ALL!

Indeed, once the underwear has been ditched, I find myself reaching for the fast-forward button to see if the next "encounter" will make better use of the erotic potential of these erotically charged garments.
I have made a long quest for the perfect underwear video and although I have seen quite a few, oh alright, maybe a hundred, ...I still haven't found the definitive one!
Anyone else had success?
Regards from THE BONDSMAN
(I can, if pressed list the ones I have checked out, but the guys on the board may have seen my posting on this subject elsewhere.)

[rjay]

I have to say one of my hottest experiences was having my briefs ripped apart so my boyfriend could get in to them. We kept them on the whole time. By the end the only thing that was on me was the waiste band with shredden cotton hanging from it and one of my legs had the leg band barely hangen on. They were one of my favorite briefs, but it was well worth it. I'm getting hard just thinken of it.

About if I sleep in my underwear, I sleep in boxers or briefs. Years of having roomates made me cover up a little.

[revrecvr]

i prefer un der wear and a t- shirt over complete naked ness like several other comments i read , i find with during sex kind of adds to the mystry and erotic side

[Unregistered]

Foreplay in sexy briefs is a great turn no. I really like to undress my partner slowly feeling all his body with my hands before going down and using my mouth on his erection thru his briefs.

[JohnH]

I always sleep naked, and have since I was about 14. For me, it's just so much more comfortable that way, and so much less confining. As for sex, well, underwear is a VERY important part of foreplay; but I prefer to be completely naked well before matters become urgent. But I always savor that moment in which, finally, the briefs come off, and there's just no more hiding!

[Hilprinmor]

Originally posted by rjay
I have to say one of my hottest experiences was having my briefs ripped apart so my boyfriend could get in to them. We kept them on the whole time. By the end the only thing that was on me was the waiste band with shredden cotton hanging from it and one of my legs had the leg band barely hangen on. They were one of my favorite briefs, but it was well worth it. I'm getting hard just thinken of it.

About if I sleep in my underwear, I sleep in boxers or briefs. Years of having roomates made me cover up a little.

Thanks for sharing your story. I just love the sensation of another piece of clothing (i.e. underwear, pants, etc.) prior to stripping to the birthday suit. Aaahhhh...the anticipation!

Hilprinmor

[rebel_heart]

Originally posted by Hilprinmor
1) Do you sleep with just your underwear on? Or do you sleep on your "birthday suit" (naked)?

sometimes i sleep with my underwear on. it feels great in your bare essentials. i get to sleep comfortable with just a brief on or sometimes with a tight shirt on.:p

Originally posted by Hilprinmor
2) For you gay men who have a fetish for underwear: when you have sex with your partner, are you more *turned on* when he's wearing underwear than when his naked?

honestly i'm a virgin and i have never had sex with a guy before...but if in case i'll have mine, sometime in the future, i'd like to have my partner (who's a top) take either cases, do me with the underwear halfway on his thighs or knees or do me while he's totally nude. either case is nice. i can only imagine the pleasure of it.

but if we sleep after sex, i'd be more turned on if he pulls his underwear on again,....so that by morning if i'll be the one who wakes up first, i might be frisky so i'd give him a nice blowjob. thinking of him sleeping sexily on bed and the thought of having to tug down his underwear slowly but surely makes me wild....:p