Str8 Guy

[thongs4guys]

Hey I have posted here for sometime. I'm married and since joining this forum I have because very curious.....I would like to get some advice on having that first :blowme with another guy. I would love to have a 3some with my wife with another male but I have to say that would never happen because my wife is totally against that. You can checkout my profile I live in Louisiana so if there's a guy out there that might like to meet let me know. May there's another married guy here that has thought about this also....well thanks guys.

[scootmanca]

sounds hot.. Just remember to be safe! There are plenty of guys out there that enjoy the best of both worlds... Good luck!!

[slythering]

Hey I have posted here for sometime. I'm married and since joining this forum I have because very curious.....I would like to get some advice on having that first :blowme with another guy. I would love to have a 3some with my wife with another male but I have to say that would never happen because my wife is totally against that. You can checkout my profile I live in Louisiana so if there's a guy out there that might like to meet let me know. May there's another married guy here that has thought about this also....well thanks guys.


I am in the same situation. Very shy but an exhibitionist if you can work that out. I go to the local gym and after a workout-wearing white nylon almost seethru shorts- go for a dip in the pool in my white unlined speedo. It gets very transparent! I don't deliberately parade in front of anyone but if they care to look they might see something. I usually have a towel to cover the front unless I go into the steam room. But no-one has taken the hint! I am worried that if it is too obvious I will get banned! There must be a secret code for bi-curious virgins like me- but fuck if I know what it is! One day...

[thongs4guys]

I had a membership to a local gym and have been thinking of re-joining. I'm going to join again mainly because I need to workout, not hoping to get a bj but if it happens will that would be a plus. You guys think I could get some attention wearing some of my N2N undies or that blue thong it's very see-tru when wet.

Thanks for the replys guys.


slythering good luck.... if I happen to get lucky or you please write back.

[UnderWear Freek]

When it comes to playing, I don't worry about it. Then, all of a sudden it's happening.

[Steve39]

I am also married, but have that curious feeling that I would like to try more, well I tried to find someone to have that experience with online, boy the internet is is wonderful but there are some weird people out there so be carefull and good luck, I still have not found anyone

[thongs4guys]

I am also married, but have that curious feeling that I would like to try more, well I tried to find someone to have that experience with online, boy the internet is is wonderful but there are some weird people out there so be carefull and good luck, I still have not found anyone


Thanks Steve,


Yes I agree with you on the part about the internet. I'm in no hurry like UnderWear Freek said... When it comes to playing, I don't worry about it. Then, all of a sudden it's happening.

[peacheata]

I live a straight life , but between girls ive had a couple hot encounters. try a mixed night in a club or a gym - get changed slow and showered slow. i always find that marines want to suck my dick on a saturday night if they haven't pulled any girls. you sit at a taxi rank or a takeaway, park bench - they do all the talkin and next thing im home with a jarhead on my cock. Be careful though. I talk filthy on here cos it's a fantasy in real life I read the signs carefully. Maybe instaed of doing anything you should just talk dirty and wank. Fantasy is very diferant from reality. Be careful take care! I'd still love to have a go at your fine ass though. :moon Oh yeah play truth or dare with a drunk workmate i aways dare them to flash their asses. by the time that they are showing me their bums they've already decided to suck my cock sweet :blowme

[ca_boomer]

Well thongs4guys, I gotta say, from your photo's I would like to move to your state. I don't think you should have much of a problem. It will happen when you least expect it.

[bikinidude]

I am in the same boat too. What do you wear to swim in at the gym? I really love to bring along my skimpiest bikinis I have on biz trips and wear them to the hotel pools. Do u do this too?

[undieluv]

bi here as well. been with women, been with men, never together. never tried anal sex, but i would love to in a 3some. i would love to feel the string of my thong being pulled aside and a hard cock pushing in my ass, as i am pulling aside a woman's thong and sliding my rod in her pussy.

[lowrise45]

I love the way undieluv thinks. That's a tough code to crack unless you travel in the right circles.

[t4gs]

Still waiting and looking for my first.......Any new members that's interested??




Hey I have posted here for sometime. I'm married and since joining this forum I have because very curious.....I would like to get some advice on having that first with another guy. I would love to have a 3some with my wife with another male but I have to say that would never happen because my wife is totally against that. You can checkout my profile I live in Louisiana so if there's a guy out there that might like to meet let me know. May there's another married guy here that has thought about this also....well thanks guys.

[am shyguy]

HI I to know the feeling as I am str8 married Canadian. I also have become very very curious since coming here and get great pleasure posting as i find it addicting! Love to chat with someone like myself and would really like it eventually be a Canadian and my first desire would be to do a photo shoot of a descrete fashion.Look forward to chat please get in touch!

[The Bondsman]

Now as a gay man who has known which side of the fence my preferences lie since about 5, without wishing to cause offence in any way, I've just got to ask all you "str8"(?) guys just what is it about marriage that makes you all "curious" as you put it, AFTER getting married?
Did it never occur to any of you before walking down the aisle and saying "I do"??? :confused:
Is marriage to a women that unsatisfying sexually?
(I've got to ask, seeing as I'm never even remotely likely to experience THAT institution!)
What were you all doing during your sexed-up adolescence when your fantasies were running hot? Did you only ever think of women while you wanked?
Or did your mind-porn often stray to men, ....and if it was men, didn't THAT even give you a hint?
How did marriage make you suddenly want to wander?
I have had what I consider a long term relationship with Dearest Boyf, (we can't marry here, ...yet!), and let me tell you, it's NEVER EVER caused me to be "str8-curious", .....or long for dalliance with females for even one moment!!!
I do not believe anyone EVER "turned gay", .....it's just not possible in my vast research, ...if the thoughts are there now, they were ALWAYS there. Which brings me back to my original question, ....why now AFTER marriage? :confused:
Isn't it maybe just a little unfair to the women who married you in good faith? :confused: :confused: :confused:

[slythering]

Hey Bondsman!

Your comments are as insightful as ever. Are you a shrink or amateur psycholgist?

We are what we are. Maybe you are lucky (perhpas not the best word to use although I know you would perhaps consider it right one for you in that you are decidedly one way in your sexuality)

Geneticists are discovering more and more how genes determine our behaviour and the debate between nature and nurture goes on. But it seems to me that we most of us must have a gene that is lying latent waiting to be switched on. Maybe your version of the gene was already in the "on" postion at birth! Something /someone/ or some event has maybe half-thrown my switch! And those bigoted gay-bashers out there probably don't have the gene at all! Or it is welded in the "off" position.

Confused -yes! Unfair on the wife-Yes! But that is why we have morality. We can choose. So we are curious, confused and we come to this web site and fantasize, jerk off and relieve the pressures. Maybe we will sometime step over the threshhold to an actual physical act. Maybe some of us will be happy with the "mindfuck" that websites like this give us. (and save our marriages?)
And maybe some of us have wives in a similar position-who might just understand-but it is a helluva gamble whichever way you decide play it! Be honest and risk divorce etc, cover it up and get caught anyway and risk divorce! The problem for curious guys like me is the not knowing how the wife might react! I am sure we have all played out various scenarios in our minds!


Some gays I am sure will find the dilemma we have amusing. "Oh, they have a rotten marriage, they aren't getting the right kind of sex with the wife, their marriage has failed" and all this curiosity is a symptom of that. Equally strong heteros may feel the same wa about us! We are the wimps who sit on the fence!

It ain't that simple! I don't think we denied our sexuality when we went down the more normal pathways. For me it wasn't something I even considered 20 years ago, and I don't feel that I was pushed by society or family in any particular way either. Maybe I never met those strapping jocks or sexy twinks with bulging packages or cute asses in the locker room and if I had things would have been different...who knows. Until I get my time machine...

You are a smart tolerant guy so you already know all this. One day we will all be more open and free in our thinking-but that old chestnut-commitment to one person-monogomay-is always the problem. Maybe we deserve condemnation, because having got married we should stick with it. People who get divorced are free on one moral level to choose all over again.

I digress a little to one of those stupid seventies movies I always watch on cable "Logan's Run"- which showed a future post-apocalyptic society where you could go on "the circuit" for kicks. Legal prostitution. There's that famous scene where Michael Yorke, our friendly neighbourhood terminator/sandman looking for a squeeze to relieve his boredom, rejects a guy and then chooses a girl ( how could he do anything but?) whom he notices is wearing an Ankh(not just a skimpy green dress and no panties!) -our heroine.
He then has a Damascene conversion and they escape to "sactuary". The price of that society was death at 30 years of course. Will our society go that way one day-where one week you have a bf, the next a gf, and so on?

Until then we struggle wit our own sexual morality or not! Maybe one day I will dip my toe in the water, find I hate it but still enjoy guys in bulging briefs! Now that would be nightmare! Repressed and fucked up closet homo - as-exualty here I come! Equally I might like t too much and then screw up my marriage.

To summarise, the truth is -in my case anyway-is we didn't know at the time. For me it is something that came out of the blue some 10 years into my happy and still mostly happy marriage.

The real problem is with guys who know they might be gay or bi and get married all the same. Real dishonesty it is. And that should be discussed with the prospective partner, or they should choose a partner who feels the same way or is quite happy with the mmf situation! or mff as well! I suspect lesbians have a much easier lot here-they can have all the trappings of marriage and family - and go and shag a guy when they feel like it? Society is more tolerant of lesbians but things are moving.

I hope I have made sense!
be well!

[t4gs]

Bondsman


I know what I'm...all I have said is that I'm alittle curious. That's something I guest you have never experience. I'm not gay and chose women over men anyday. Just curious....that's all.

[The Bondsman]

Hey Bondsman!
Your comments are as insightful as ever. Are you a shrink or amateur psycholgist?
Just "curious" slythering! :D :D :D
We are what we are. Maybe you are lucky (perhpas not the best word to use although I know you would perhaps consider it right one for you in that you are decidedly one way in your sexuality)
Thanks slythering, and t4gs too for answering so frankly.
Yes, ...strange as it mayt seem to others here, I DO consider myself "lucky" to have been born gay, ....and have never wished at any stage of my life to be otherwise, despite it obviously being "easier" to live in what is basically a str8 world.
Someone once asked my if there was a pill to make you str8, would I take it?
I replied I'd be terrified someone would sneak it into my food! :D
Guess I've been lucky to be happy with what I am, ....I do know that there are gay people who, usually due to the toxic influence of religious bigotry, are currently at serious self-loathing over their sexual orientation.
For these people I have nothing but total pity. Despite all those bizarre claims of "cures", (how I hate that word and it's implication), those religious zealots leave only a trail of totally f--ked up poor shells, unable to function on any level.
Please understand, I was as I said above, neither trying to be flippant or cause offence, ......just trying to get an understanding of how guys could go so long before making the "discovery". I'm also not too sure just what you mean by "curious"? Does it mean like I'm curious what's on Mars, ......but never likely to go there; ...or curious as to what a new drink tastes like, and more than willing to try it to find out? :confused:
I would also like to know if indeed you fantasized about men during adolescent wanking?

Do remember what a very experienced girl once told me over just this very conversation. She told me, ....and believe me, she should know, ....that "Once they've tried the dick, they never come back!"
And in a bizarre segue, what is it with this growing genre of porn-movies I'm noticing that feature men being "done" by real girls wearing strap-ons?
I guess it's some sort of extension of the so-called str8 boys having sex with what to all other outward appearances looks like a very busty women, until you notice the erect penis between "her" legs!!! :eek:
Is this a case of being able to satisfy your curiosity of sucking a dick, but it looking like a girl's "dick", so therefore you're still str8 somehow????
Confusing? You bet!

[deusex]

And in a bizarre segue, what is it with this growing genre of porn-movies I'm noticing that feature men being "done" by real girls wearing strap-ons?


I don't understand it either, but hey! if that's what turns them on - go for it. I've been watching season 2 of Weeds and that was covered in one of the episodes. Although they didn't get into the reasoning behind it, my take on it is that it is more a power play / dominance thing where the girl is on top and not really about fantasizing that the women in really a man - but I can only guess.

[t4gs]

Bondsman,


More on the line as....curious as to what a new drink tastes like, and more than willing to try it to find out? I'd love a MMF 3some.

[The Bondsman]

Bondsman,I'd love a MMF 3some.
Now purely in the matter of curiosity you realise, ..... I've actually watched one of those on video.
Mind you, they were selected by some str8 mates for their now notorious "prawn-&-porn" nights which I endure from time to time.
They thought I might "enjoy" it???
From what I saw the two men concentrated on the woman exclusively and there was definitely no "man-on-man" action at all! The closest being the apparently obligatory double penetration when obviously the two dicks were rubbing together, ...but that was it!
I warned them all that NEXT time I'M slipping a few of MY selections in to the mix. If I have to endure their hetero-choices while trying to keep my prawns down, I think it's only fair the group gets to watch one of mine!
Could prove very interesting, ....specially after they all stop trying to prove they're SO not interested!
I'll keep an eye out for just who's got a hard-on, ......remembering that they are VERY contagious.... ;)
Just a thought though, back to your wish ...wouldn't the woman feel a bit left out if the two guys started going for it? :confused:
Might just be a bit hard to compete?

[SweatyAussie]

And in a bizarre segue, what is it with this growing genre of porn-movies I'm noticing that feature men being "done" by real girls wearing strap-ons?
Never worn a segue, what's one of those? Something like a tanga?

[SweatyAussie]

******* WARNING ****** joke ahead.... nobody take offence please....

Do you "curious" guys realise that:

- "Curious" is a synonym for "strange"?
- which is a synonym for "queer"?
- which is a synonym for "gay"?

Isn't the English language wonderful!

[SweatyAussie]

... or better still, chuck it straight in the fire underneath, that sounds the best place for it from your description.

Now purely in the matter of curiosity you realise, ..... I've actually watched one of those on video.
Mind you, they were selected by some str8 mates for their now notorious "prawn-&-porn" nights which I endure from time to time.
They thought I might "enjoy" it???
From what I saw the two men concentrated on the woman exclusively and there was definitely no "man-on-man" action at all! The closest being the apparently obligatory double penetration when obviously the two dicks were rubbing together, ...but that was it!

[The Bondsman]

... or better still, chuck it straight in the fire underneath, that sounds the best place for it from your description.
"Oh, you're not wrong Narelle!"
But it is nice to have one's orientation confirmed every now and then.
Just between you and me, SweatyAussie, str8s have weird sex! ;) ;) ;) :D :D :D

[t4gs]

Bondsman,


wouldn't the woman feel a bit left out if the two guys started going for it?
Might just be a bit hard to compete?


That all depends......I'd like while the other guy's hitting it. Have my face and tongue in the middle licking her clit and his cock and balls. And while he's pounding that sweet pussy taking that soaked HARD cock in and out sucking the hot juices off. :blowme

[The Bondsman]

.I'd like while the other guy's hitting it. Have my face and tongue in the middle licking her clit and his cock and balls. And while he's pounding that sweet pussy taking that soaked HARD cock in and out sucking the hot juices off. :blowme
Errr, ...refer to my statement above! ;) ;) ;) :D :D :D :D :D :D
Excuse me for a minute, .....I may need a selzer! ;) :D :D :D

[SweatyAussie]

I'd like while the other guy's hitting it. Have my face and tongue in the middle licking her clit and his cock and balls. And while he's pounding that sweet pussy taking that soaked HARD cock in and out sucking the hot juices off. :blowme
OK... that settles it, I have just made up my mind, I'm 100% gay. :D

[t4gs]

HEY,

So if this were 3 guys getting it on none of you would :blowme after or during sex???


I'd like while the other guy's hitting it. Have my face and tongue in the middle licking her clit and his cock and balls. And while he's pounding that sweet pussy taking that soaked HARD cock in and out sucking the hot juices off.

Now that's not all I'd like....but this is a Fantasy of mine. No different then having either of them cum in mouth??? This way I get both! :D

[The Bondsman]

HEY,
So if this were 3 guys getting it on none of you would :blowme after or during sex???
Probably not, .......but then I'm a bit fussy about where what I put in my mouth has been, but that's only me, and not to be taken as a general rule for others here.
Now not to ruin your personal fantasy in any way, but the very thought of those "hot juices" :eek: as you so delicately put it, doesn't really do much for a boy of gay persuasion, .....probably the opposite! :eek:

Chacun a son gout of course! (Or maybe "chacun a sa goutte" if the pun works in French!) :D
I tend to do the oral stuff first........or last if we haven't gone off on a different track. ;)
Enjoy your fantasy, hope it becomes reality for you sooner than you expect!

[t4gs]

Just in case someone's interested in sucking my cock here's a photo of it.....


http://usg-online.com/photopost2/showphoto.php?photo=45648&limit=recent

[SweatyAussie]

Just in case someone's interested in sucking my cock here's a photo of it.....


http://usg-online.com/photopost2/showphoto.php?photo=40645&cat=538

Nice cock... but there wouldn't be much point in my sucking it. Being straight, you wouldn't get any pleasure out of sex with a man.

[t4gs]

Nice cock... but there wouldn't be much point in my sucking it. Being straight, you wouldn't get any pleasure out of sex with a man.

That would depend on who's sucking it and how well of a job they were doing....as to how far he makes me go.

But I still like to have a guy :blowme me....I want to see how true it is that no one can give you head like another guy.

[deusex]

t4gs,

Very nice dick. I would have no problem sucking you off if I didn't have a boyfriend! ;-) I don't care if you're straight, any nice dick is fun to blow!

[t4gs]

THANKS DEUSEX!!!! :blowme

[undieluv]

mmmmmmm lovely cock.

now lets see some cum.

[SweatyAussie]

That would depend on who's sucking it and how well of a job they were doing....as to how far he makes me go.

But I still like to have a guy :blowme me....I want to see how true it is that no one can give you head like another guy.
What about you doing the same for another guy? Or doesn't your "straight curiosity" extend that far? :D

[MUCjock]

wouldn't mind getting my tounge around that cock either ;-)

[t4gs]

I'm glad you guys so what to suck it !!!! Yes.....I'd return the favorite if it were and adorable cock. :blowme

[t4gs]

:blowme :blowme :blowme :blowme :blowme :blowme :D :D :D :D :D


I dare you. :D

[t4gs]

What about you doing the same for another guy? Or doesn't your "straight curiosity" extend that far? :D



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