Am I becoming gay ?

[Squirter]

The first time I saw Usg, I was a hetero...
Then I got addicted to bulge pics...
Then I got addicted to orgasms for bulge pics... I realized I liked it A LOT...
And now here is my colection : the pics that make me wank myself and moan and cum...

http://imageevent.com/stetson88/myfirstgayorgasms?rotp=4231&rotp=8012

And I have VERY violent orgasms for them...
Which is VERY new to me...
I liked cocks in hetero porn movies, but now... it's different...
And I can't help wanking myself for those pics... the pleasure is so strong... so new...
What do you think ?

:o :o :o

[The Bondsman]

The first time I saw Usg, I was a hetero...
Then I got addicted to bulge pics...
And I can't help wanking myself for those pics... the pleasure is so strong... so new...
What do you think ?
In my professional opinion, I would classify you as a "bisexual with a failed heterosexuality component"
Err, ...I think that means you're GAY! :D :D :D
Enjoy it!

[deusex]

If you really need a label, then it's simple...

If you're not getting turned on by women anymore, then you're gay

If you still get turned on by women, but men as well, then you're bi

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I guess you could be hetero with bulge envy, but looking at those photos, I say you're definitely not completely hetero.

[dayne]

Take your time and see what happens. I'd suggest you don't have to hurry to define yourself. Time will show you what you are, Gay, Bi, or Straight. My own experience was that I felt I really needed definition in my life so I hurried to come out as gay. Later I realized that definition really didn't fit me. I accepted I was bi and always had been. .

[lowrise45]

The fact that you find this content interesting confirms that you're at least bi-curious. I agree with another post that the heterosexual/homosexual boundary is really gray. I'm probably way too close to the subject, but I believe that if 10 percent of us are gay then at least 40 percent are of some degree bi-sexual. Those of us who have had experiences on both sides probably understand more about their own boundaries.

This site wont make you gay, you're just finding out what you like.

[lmiller75]

Well, I read a sociological article a while ago, staing that almost 75% of men are bisexual, albeit they do not realize it. (sorry, forgot the scientific term of that one)

So, at first I was just as worried as you now, then I bought a big bottle of strong booze, settled down into my favorite armchair, started thinking about this...
... then I realized, I am a bi (and happy about that, mind you), called my girlfriend, (had a great sex with her, mind you, again) and later on the same night, played with my willie, while watching the pics on this site.

And I had a blast of an orgasm, mind you, at last. :cool:

[rignon]

I agree that this site won't make you gay, but if you can admit that you enjoy the male form you are at least curious. For me, I have been curious for a while and this site only confirmed that. So far, I haven't tried to do anything about it, but if the opportunity arises, I would try it out and see how I like it. Just relax and don't feel that you have to do anything. Besides, part of the fun is finding out who you really are.

[SweatyAussie]

A hetero man is just a gay man who hasn't found a good man yet.

(To all the straights and bis who might take offense... JOKE! JOKE! jOKE!!!!
:o :o :o :) :) :) :D :D :D :D :D :D :D )

[ballucanb]

I think you nailed that, I wish I spent more time, looking for Mr. Right, instead of trying to play the game, of looking (so called normal) and trying to date women, never had any luck in that department either, I wish I was young again, I wouldn't waste my time on trying to fit the mold, of the so called normal people.

[rignon]

A hetero man is just a gay man who hasn't found a good man yet.

(To all the straights and bis who might take offense... JOKE! JOKE! jOKE!!!!
:o :o :o :) :) :) :D :D :D :D :D :D :D )

The older I get the more willing I am to test your hypothesis. All I need is a good man! ;)

[uncertainguy79]

I've always been the atypical hetero guy, but over time watching stuff like gag factor then running into a site like this, I am becoming uncomfortably curious about certain things myself.

[The Bondsman]

I do wish ONE thing coud be made abundantly clear here.
You do not suddenly wake up one morning, ...and TURN gay!
It is my firm belief, and that of many other researchers, that sexuality is determined at conception.
Of course many may take a long time to find out; others may go into denial for various reasons and valiantly ignore it , ...sadly for some, all their lives!
Just as I cannot suddenly "turn" str8, ...even if I wanted too, (perish the thought! :eek: ).
Of course I could probably give a reasonable impersonation of str8 behaviour if I put my mind to it, but within my psyche, I would still be a gay man playing a role.
If you're experiencing "waverings of uncertainty", it's no big deal. You are only just starting to admit the slightest possibility that really deep down, you may be a different person to the one you thought you had sorted out.
There are many reasons we may choose to ignore/repress/deny/hide "gay" feelings.
Parental expectations and fears of disappointing family and love ones; (oh it would kill Dad!); fear of being a social outcast amongst your peers; a deeply entrenched fear/hatred of homosexuals caused by listening to the spouted prejudices of friends or family; or just the hugely unsettling notion that you MAY be different to what you assumed (or hoped) you were.
It's NO BIG DEAL, ....despite your worries. Many people manage to live long and productive, loving lives as homosexuals, despite what the religious American Taliban may shout, ......and you will find most of US do NOT go round picketing funerals, ...although I must confess, I was VERY tempted after the recent death of one Mr. Gerry Falwell over there. :mad: He's very lucky I was busy that week, but I'm sure that IF he's woken up at all, it's in a place he didn't expect to be, the central heating's WAY too hot and that's satisfaction enough for me!
The worst thing you can do is develop irrational fears over gay thoughts. I have quite a few str8 male friends, who know everything about me, and they sometimes ask me for advice. It's often over such inconsequential things as they have discovered that if they touch their arse hole, they get an erection! "Does this mean I'm gay?" :eek: :D :cool:
Others are just curious about what anal intercourse feels like, and some confess to watching some gay porn and feel a bit guilty because it turned 'em on! Can you believe it??? :eek: :D
(Some of the other cheeky buggers want their egos stroked, and ask if they are attractive to men!)

Rest assured, IF you start to feel "gay" orientated feelings, it's NOT something that just popped into your head, something you ate, a too tight thong or listening to way too many Madonna Cd's.
It was always there, ...deep down, no matter how hard you consciously tried to ignore it, or were even totally unaware of it.
It's NOT the end of the world!
You can choose to act on it, ......or not.
My only plea?
Don't waste your whole life in denial, or try to live the life others demand you should.

[SweatyAussie]

I do wish ONE thing coud be made abundantly clear here.
You do not suddenly wake up one morning, ...
... etc...
....etc...
.....etc...
I think what Bondsman is trying to say is: Option 4 applies.

[AZTanDan]

Have to agree with bondsman. Being hetero then gay isn't a light switch dark to light phenomenon. I knew I had gay tendencies at a very young age. I also knew I had hetero tendencies as well. Hence bisexuality, except at the time I didn't know that my lifestyle had a name.

My opinion (and everyone has one) is that you've always had the curiousity, or tendencies, but weren't truly in touch with who you were. This site did nothing more than force you to look inwardly and come to the conclusion that you might be gay, or at least have gay tendencies.

On a more personal note. If you decide to find out more about yourself, let me know. I would LOVE the opportunity to explore :D

[-abagazza-]

Hi, you know what bud if youre enjoying it why even think about it, it dosent matter what your sexual orentation is, just enjoy it, crack on geezer :) big smile ,abagazza.

[The Bondsman]

O.K. so this post ISN'T about underwear, BUT this thread has diverged anyway. Here in OZ, the religious right were running those "ex-gay ministries" caled "Exodus" similar to those in USA.
For those who haven't heard of these imbeciles, they promise to turn gay folk str8 by the use of aversion therapies and VERY heavy prayer and other techniques more expected at Guantanamo Bay than at a church run institution, .....or maybe not.
These so-called ministries have left a trail of suicides, and others so mentally f--ked up, that the perpetrators should all be facing jail sentences. Just here at the moment, no less than FIVE former leaders have resigned, and publicly condemned the whole practice.
A statement from them read
"There was not one person we met or worked with who, in any genuine way, achieved the fundamental transformation from homosexual to heterosexual.
The stress of attempting to change their sexual orientation, however, increased the risk of suicide, and absolutely led to erosion of self-esteem and increased levels of depression and self-deprecation at a very deep level."

Another leader, Vonnie Pitts used to be an avowed believer that homosexuality was a "choice", but after doing her own research into the causes, said she found there was mounting evidence that sexual orientation was determined in the womb.
"Now I have absolutely no doubt that homosexuals are born gay and don't need to change", she said.
Remember, these were the churches own Commandants, chosen to run these psychological torture camps.
It is a sad fact that there now exists a support group for Ex-Gay survivors, to try to at least alleviate their forcibly induced mental confusion.
A long post I know, ....but the moral?
You are what you are. Enjoy it, go WITH it...because you can't change, no matter how much you think society demands it.

[trunkbrief]

Dont label yourself yet, just enjoy this great site. I have also jerked off to some of the hot pics on this site. I am married but I also get great pleasure in looking at men to. :)

[ballucanb]

Do you think that is what they are hopeing that makeing gay people, hate themselvs so much they commit suicide, and rid them of what they consider a problem.

I have been hideing in a closet my whole life, I sorry I didn't have the internet when I was young, I could have had a happier life, instead, I lived keeping my feelings a secret.

If your young and think your gay go and do something about it, don't wait untill its too late, nobody wants you when your old....

[deusex]

If your young and think your gay go and do something about it, don't wait untill its too late, nobody wants you when your old....

While I agree whole-heartedly about not waiting to come out, I'm not sure I agree with the "nobody wants you when you're old" part. Sure it may be hard to find someone if you're looking for the young ones, but there's lots of us out there that love older guys. I think guys get more attractive as they age.

For proof - just look at this pay site: http://www.hotoldermale.com/home.php

[slythering]

Hi, you know what bud if youre enjoying it why even think about it, it dosent matter what your sexual orentation is, just enjoy it, crack on geezer :) big smile ,abagazza.

hey, right on abagazza! If you are lucky enough to get fucked by a woman -enjoy it and if you get fucked by a man then enjoy it as well! Greedy -you bet!

Personally speaking as I get older I get kinkier, so anything goes! It's the morality issue that is the problem...and that is something bred into you as a child, which is sometimes difficult to deal with and never goes away.

At least sites like this get me so horny I have to go and roger the missus stupid-luckily she isn't a mind reader cos it ain't her cunt I'm fucking....sorry for lowering the tone somewhat dramatically there! But we are both happy for different reasons.


Interesting aside:
You might have read in the news today that Genghis Khan issued orders that any of his men found indulging their mutual pleasures were to be executed-not because he was a homophobe but because he wanted to expand the mongol population-he didn't waant any seed wasted...

[tom]

I think "being gay" is in you from the word go, you don't suddenly turn gay - you only start to develop what is there (and probably suppressed) already if you allow yourself.

With the advent of the net and excellent sites such as this, where talking abouit it is itself a huge plus I have been able to explore those ummm, hidden bits of my mind and would now conclude that in another life I could well have enjoyed relations with both sexes, but for myriads of reasons that is too late now.

I think the poll misses out "the" question -

Do you think you have a subconcious gay leaning?

[The Bondsman]

I think the poll misses out "the" question -
Do you think you have a subconcious gay leaning?
I rather think ALL sexuality comes from the subconscious, ....the problems arise when the conscious mind is in conflict with the sub-conscious, usually due to religious or other parental childhood conditioning that says your true sexuality is "bad", sinful etc.
Then the conscious mind actively represses the true sexuality, .....which makes for one unhappy camper, ...who may not even realise this is the reason for his unfulfilment. Like all supressed things, sooner or later it will burst out and manifest itself in some way.

You only get ONE life, ...ONE go at it!

I for one, do not want to be lying on my death bed with a head full of regrets.
I did recieve the following thought in an email and I think it bears repeating:
"The aim of life is not to die leaving a beautiful, serene corpse; ....but rather to slide in to a screeching halt, martini in one hand and a body that shows a hell of a lot of wonderful experiences, saying "Wow, what a hell of a ride THAT was!"
Make the best of it!

[Bruno]

"At least sites like this get me so horny I have to go and roger the missus stupid-luckily she isn't a mind reader cos it ain't her cunt I'm fucking..." as Slythering states. The answer to your question may ultimately be found in the fantasies of imaginations you enjoy as you find sexual satisfaction/relief in looking at stimulating pictures. You may then decide to look for a living man in those crotch-shots. I only urge you to use caution and learn from Senator Craig's experience that public sex is hazardous! Meet some gay men from gay organizations or bars to learn the scene.

[dayne]

I'm a very satisfied bisexual and have been happy that way for years. I make this comment so you know it is possible to not have to become gay while not staying straight. Just be who you are but don't think experimentation makes you have to be one way or the other.

[The Bondsman]

At least sites like this get me so horny I have to go and roger the missus stupid-luckily she isn't a mind reader cos it ain't her cunt I'm fucking....
Which, I think, proves the point that the largest sex organ in the human body is the BRAIN!
Would anyone else agree that "sex", and the thrill that comes from it, is primarily mental?

[tom]

Which, I think, proves the point that the largest sex organ in the human body is the BRAIN!
Would anyone else agree that "sex", and the thrill that comes from it, is primarily mental?

Yes, certainly I would and just like our friend Bruno I too have stuffed the Missus thinking it was some thing\body else ;)

If we can't think about it, or fantasise about doing it in whatever form we want there is damn all satisfaction other thah for those few seconds when it physically shoots up yer tube and out.

It is the anticpation, forethought, expectation or whatever you want to call it that is the real thrill :)

For example, it was the thought of booking my flight to go over and have lesson or two from Mr B that really had me turned on and excited me, but sadly the budgie died so I had to cancell ;)

[The Bondsman]

it was the thought of booking my flight to go over and have lesson or two from Mr B that really had me turned on and excited me, but sadly the budgie died so I had to cancell ;)
Harrumph! While I could certainly understand being turned down for a "cock-a-too", ........to be stood up for a dead "budgie" is just insulting.
The very least you could have done was buy a pair of budgie-smugglers and get your limp budgie through customs and to Australia.
Why, I myself have actually raised a few limp budgies from the dead, ...perhaps I could have res-erected yours?
The only side effects in previous cases seem to have been a little lasting stiffness........but no one ever complained :D

[tom]

I am surprised, I would have thought you would have given 'em the kiss of life :blowme

Keep your pecker up :moon