I can relate to this. When dating, my wife (was gf then) dressed in sexy outfits and wore lingerie. After our marriage, the fun-loving and teasing slowed down. Then, when her daughter came to live with us, it really slowed down.
I think as long as my wife has more thongs than i do, she is alright with it. However, it seems when it comes to thong swimwear, her swimsuits, as she gets older, tend to provide my coverage whereas my swimsuits, as I get older, get smaller. So far, she seems to tolerate my underwear and swimwear.
I'm not sure this qualifies as a strange place to jerk off but it was different, at least for me. I was tanning in a thong and there were others at the pool. Thongs are/were new to me so it was arousing me. I turned over onto my stomach, to tan my back and hide my arousal. Well, due to the...
I think its a black or white issue. A significant other, gf, or wife either would be ok with their partner posting online or not ok with it. My wife is rather conservative (but we are working on changing that :), so for her, I'm sure it would not be ok for me to be posting such photos online...