Back from the wilderness

[Socrates]

Well I'm back from the wilderness, having spent three years without even a nod to what was an all consuming passion.

My marriage broke up and in a fit of low libido I threw out all my 'stuff'. Which was an expensive and painful move.

My wife used to love all my gear, and she too would wear the tiniest of g strings to compliment me, although she did say that I made love to my underwear more than her!!

Then last night, I had a delicious dream of 'searching, finding, buying and then trying on the new one for the first time', and woke up feeling quite..... ready.... to reinvigorate myself. Which started with finding this forum, swiftly followed by going online and ordering four g strings, bulge, narrow, etc. Now I have to wait until about 5th January while the business world reawakens itself from the Christmas/New Year downtime.

I did find a pair of tiny nylon briefs which had escaped the purge, so they'll do for today. Of course, to maximise 'effect' some essential depilation was required down below, which is always nice as overnight you add inches!!

What really got me thinking this morning was, why not? What am I doing 'wrong' in having this passion which started when I was about 12 years old. I can understand that perhaps it's not ok to go on a beach wearing a Koala swimsuit which is..... minimalist. But hey, then go on a naturist beach and that should be fine.

I'm not gay. I ascertained that many many years ago. I even asked a shrink if this passion was an indicator of being gay and she said not at all. When I see pictures on here of men, I do not fancy *their* bits, but rather say to myself 'that could be me'.

I look forward to reading and seeing tips on new styles and items on here.

Per

 

[ukthonger]

Sorry to hear you've had some difficult times lately but it's great that you been able to rekindle your interest/passion for minimal gear that makes you feel so sexy. That's great. What a shame you had a purge though!

 

[deusex]

Well I'm back from the wilderness, having spent three years without even a nod to what was an all consuming passion.

My marriage broke up and in a fit of low libido I threw out all my 'stuff'. Which was an expensive and painful move.

My wife used to love all my gear, and she too would wear the tiniest of g strings to compliment me, although she did say that I made love to my underwear more than her!!

Then last night, I had a delicious dream of 'searching, finding, buying and then trying on the new one for the first time', and woke up feeling quite..... ready.... to reinvigorate myself. Which started with finding this forum, swiftly followed by going online and ordering four g strings, bulge, narrow, etc. Now I have to wait until about 5th January while the business world reawakens itself from the Christmas/New Year downtime.

I did find a pair of tiny nylon briefs which had escaped the purge, so they'll do for today. Of course, to maximise 'effect' some essential depilation was required down below, which is always nice as overnight you add inches!!

What really got me thinking this morning was, why not? What am I doing 'wrong' in having this passion which started when I was about 12 years old. I can understand that perhaps it's not ok to go on a beach wearing a Koala swimsuit which is..... minimalist. But hey, then go on a naturist beach and that should be fine.

I'm not gay. I ascertained that many many years ago. I even asked a shrink if this passion was an indicator of being gay and she said not at all. When I see pictures on here of men, I do not fancy *their* bits, but rather say to myself 'that could be me'.

I look forward to reading and seeing tips on new styles and items on here.

Per

Sorry to hear about your marriage but at least it sounds like you're taking your life back and embracing your passion once again! As for the whole, gay, not gay, thing - just be who you are, do what you love - some things don't need a label stuck on them.

Can't wait to see you in all the new gear on it's way. It's got me horny in anticipation!

Here's to new beginnings!

 

[sug555]

I agree entirely with the above.

I would call myself 100% straight, been married almost 50 years, but have always since about the age of 11 had a passion for smaller and smaller underwear and swimwear and just love looking (and sucking) other guys' cocks. But that is as far as I would go with other guys. I have a cock so why shouldn't I admire other cocks and show mine off?

 

[Socrates]

My 'reborn' day comes to an end. Thank you to all who replied to my various posts. Your support has really helped my day.

Some time ago I posted a question, on Yahoo I think, asking all what they thought about G-strings for men, thongs etc. The responses, in summary, ranged from 'No!!!' through 'Unusual' to...... 'You do what you like!!!'.

The interesting split was men half and half for/against, and women respondents saying (mostly) 'It doesn't do much for me' - whilst not giving it a thumbs down.

So, statistically, I think we're not living against the grain of society. Who's interested? Nobody really. And here's the thing. We have something that others don't. OMG....... If only they knew the pleasures we have and they don't.

Yep. We're on winner, here!!!