Does size mater?

[Onelife]

Hello everyone I’m new to this
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I been hung up on my size since elementary school I always felt less then and still do after years of low confidence. I’m a little less then 6 inches.
Im just curious if anyone else feels the same

 

[Deleted member 2863]

Well from my experience.....Years ago I was engaged to my wife's cousin. One day she just broke up with me. No explanation. Years pass. One day my wife said to me "you know why my cousin broke up with you' No says I "Because she couldn't handle what you have." My wife knew about it because her cousin told all 4 of her sisters, her Mom, my wife's mom. Family reunions were always interesting. Never knew why though till years later. So I don't know.......

 

[Onelife]

Well from my experience.....Years ago I was engaged to my wife's cousin. One day she just broke up with me. No explanation. Years pass. One day my wife said to me "you know why my cousin broke up with you' No says I "Because she couldn't handle what you have." My wife knew about it because her cousin told all 4 of her sisters, her Mom, my wife's mom. Family reunions were always interesting. Never knew why though till years later. So I don't know.......

Thanks for sharing this
It still consumes me and I probably will never feel comfortable about myself

 

[sug555]

I'm sorry you had that experience, mate. It sounds like such a silly reason to break up with someone - as long as you could still perform your manly duties. Also, it wasn't especially sensitive of this woman to talk about your supposedly inadequate endowment to others. I think it reflects poorly on her, and not you.

I am considered above-average in terms of size, and my friends tease me about it sometimes. "He's a healthy boy, etc." But I realise the older I get the less it matters. Human connection is what matters when making love, not the size of one's genitals.

I agree completely. Concentrate on making your partner happy when you are having sex and she will not be disappponted with you whatever your size!

 

[Onelife]

For me, size doesn't matter, certainly not in the bedroom. Sex, for me, is about connection with a partner and their entire selves, not just one or two details. However, I can understand young men feeling a little self-conscious, say, in the locker room, because they think all their mates are bigger. Some fellas are growers, though. They don't look that big soft. And some dicks that look big soft don't get much bigger hard.

Plus, if your dick is too big, it's a nightmare buying underwear that feels comfortable to walk around in. Too big can make guys self-conscious too. I am over six inches - I don't think you're missing out on anything special. My "large member" becomes less noticeable with age too!! Somehow, I don't think anyone is admiring me in the locker room.

Most guys believe average size is 6 inches. Research suggests average penis size, however is only 5-5.5 inches, and probably closer to 5 inches. In other words, onelife, if you're a little less than 6 inches and above 5.5 inches, you're actually above average, statistically speaking!! You have nothing to worry about. If you were 5 inches exactly, you'd still be average. And if you were smaller than 5, you could still get the job done. Penises are funny, funny things.

Thank you for your reply Jerome all what you said is very true. I really appreciate the reply’s I have got. I don’t know Where are the threat is going or what I gain or expect
Nothing will the fact. I guess I’m kind of a perfectionist, like when I enjoy something I have to have the best, for instance fishing I like fishing so naturally I have to have the best rod no pun intended or best tackle. And I heard woman say already bigger is better.

 

[Onelife]

It's all good, mate. No worries at all. And, if I may say so ... happy fishing with that splendid equipment of yours!

Lol

 

[t&glvr]

You need to watch “UnHung Heroe”
It’s a documentary about a guy’s quest to answer this question.

 

[Onelife]

You need to watch “UnHung Heroe”
It’s a documentary about a guy’s quest to answer this question.

I’m looking for it right now thank you

 

[Deleted member 3098]

I don't think it matters if a gal really loves you.lm sure there's ways to thrill a gal anyway.She should have told you beforehand.I think the problem was her not you.

 

[Onelife]

I don't think it matters if a gal really loves you.lm sure there's ways to thrill a gal anyway.She should have told you beforehand.I think the problem was her not you.

Thank you

 

[hammertobell]

Bodies are all different...thats what makes them so much fun. What matters is context and connection with your partners. Everyone would take being with someone who drives them crazy over a person with whatever specific body part.

Just get out there and enjoy your partners!

 

[BubbleThong]

It’s not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean! I’ve had lovers with a few different sizes...as a bottom too big is bad and too small just doesn’t satisfy...BUT, when a guy knows what he’s doing AND there’s a connection, that’s far hotter vs. a slightly larger member

 

[Deleted member 3582]

I actually like to wear tiny flat-front Mategear or AQUX suits or gaff thongs, to have the smallest suit on the crowded Beach. The cold water shrinks me to fit in even better. Since there is no loose pouch, it looks fine, and I like the squeeze.

 

[konk500]

I've read that several ancient civilizations actually prized smaller cocks over large ones, being that larger ones could be painful during anal sex. So our preoccupation with big dicks really is just a cultural thing.

Nobody has any control over it anyway. The trick is to learn how to best use what you're born with.

 

[konk500]

fwiw, this guy's not exactly hung like a horse, but I doubt anyone here would kick him out of bed! LoL!

 

[BubbleThong]

Haven't heard that one before, but I'll definitely be remembering it from now on!!

Haha - its a good one. Size DOES matter to a certain degree…i mean you need to touch the sides and make me work a bit

 

[silver_arrow86]

Hello everyone I’m new to this
Forum
I been hung up on my size since elementary school I always felt less then and still do after years of low confidence. I’m a little less then 6 inches.
Im just curious if anyone else feels the same

Like to share my experience from germany. I am 36 and have exactly 6 Inches. Most of the dates I had in the Last years, Mine was the bigger one. So only a few guys really have more. My bf now has 4,5 Inches and fucks me very well! I love that it’s not bigger, because the wilder he can bang me no matter if oral or anal, I really do enjoy his 4,5 inch dick

 

[silver_arrow86]

It’s not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean! I’ve had lovers with a few different sizes...as a bottom too big is bad and too small just doesn’t satisfy...BUT, when a guy knows what he’s doing AND there’s a connection, that’s far hotter vs. a slightly larger member

In Germany we say something like: „ it’s not the size of the hammer, it‘s how you hammer with it“

 

[BubbleThong]

In Germany we say something like: „ it’s not the size of the hammer, it‘s how you hammer with it“

Haha that’s a good one…but then again you need the right hammer for each job (sometimes!)

 

[thxlove]

Thanks for sharing this
It still consumes me and I probably will never feel comfortable about myself

I think (self)acceptance is vital . There are people that will accept you for who you are. Seek and find.