Does your partner approve of your underwear fetish?

[Socal2024]

Couldn't agree more! My wife used to be more fun-loving when we were dating... she would tease me with her newly bought panties and bra, and even had a g-string on once (was a bit cartoonish kind but I do appreciate that!). But over the years she got more and more into granny panties, saying that thongs/g-strings were uncomfortable... I meant, I wasn't asking her to wear one for *entire* day, right?

I can relate to this. When dating, my wife (was gf then) dressed in sexy outfits and wore lingerie. After our marriage, the fun-loving and teasing slowed down. Then, when her daughter came to live with us, it really slowed down.

 

[RoaringRager77]

My current is iffy about the thongs. Every Holiday, she will get me a pair of boxer briefs or trunks. A secret war perhaps.

The only compromise we have is no thongs on the beach, which is okay with me considering I am the definition of white, transparent possibly, and it is a process for me to tan. The more covered the better, especially the cheeks.

lol the boxer my wife bought for me many years ago was still lying in my drawer in its original packaging....

 

[malelover]

She does not. I do all my selfieing and dirty vids secretly

would love to help with that

 

[malelover]

I'm 57 my wife has only wanted sex when she wanted kids. I've been masturbating to porn 3-5 days a week for over 10 years. She knows but doesn't care. She barely touches my body. And on the rare occasion we have sex, she just lays there while I eat her and I do all the work. I've stopped asking for it because the answer is NO.

I guess this is why we end up looking for other "married friends" where we can have some fun

 

[speedoluvr]

I guess this is why we end up looking for other "married friends" where we can have some fun

Exactly. I consider it more and more.

 

[Hotbunz1969]

I’m very fortunate to have a GF that not only shares my passion but also unbraces it….
She loves picking new suits for me to wear and as a true micro bikini girl herself is always ready to wear whatever new styles I buy for her….

 

[luvrgstr22]

I’m very fortunate to have a GF that not only shares my passion but also unbraces it….
She loves picking new suits for me to wear and as a true micro bikini girl herself is always ready to wear whatever new styles I buy for her….

You are one lucky man!

 

[Korky]

my wife tolerates it. Although I think she does like a few pairs I own. Also she has no idea of my thongs as she will not have that. I am ok with this

 

[Korky]

I’m in the same situation, but I push forward.
I have a red pair just like the ones you have on

 

[speedoluvr]

She tolerates what she knows about ... but there's a lot she doesn't know about!

A few years back she told me to stop masturbating and watching porn. She said it makes her feel inadequate as a wife. I told her I got tired of our sexless marriage. She told me to deal with it and can't keep up with me. Ever since I went on Testosterone Replacement Therapy my drive skyrocketed and she hates it. I don't bother initiating. I just but my sexy underwear for me. My jerk off sessions are early morning or at my office (I have no employees so it's safe). Now I know why guys cheat.

 

[malelover]

A few years back she told me to stop masturbating and watching porn. She said it makes her feel inadequate as a wife. I told her I got tired of our sexless marriage. She told me to deal with it and can't keep up with me. Ever since I went on Testosterone Replacement Therapy my drive skyrocketed and she hates it. I don't bother initiating. I just but my sexy underwear for me. My jerk off sessions are early morning or at my office (I have no employees so it's safe). Now I know why guys cheat.

you are 100% on point! interesting how we are all on the same boat.... and how we deal with it... to get better we should all be physically close to each other for some mutual fun!

 

[microstringlvr]

A few years back she told me to stop masturbating and watching porn. She said it makes her feel inadequate as a wife. I told her I got tired of our sexless marriage. She told me to deal with it and can't keep up with me. Ever since I went on Testosterone Replacement Therapy my drive skyrocketed and she hates it. I don't bother initiating. I just but my sexy underwear for me. My jerk off sessions are early morning or at my office (I have no employees so it's safe). Now I know why guys cheat.

So sorry to hear but I'm in the same situation. Lazy wife! I'd like to get some testerone boost, def noticing a dip, did ur doc prescribe it?

 

[POPCORN]

She tolerates what she knows about ... but there's a lot she doesn't know about!

Same here.

 

[driver32tl2]

It resonated with me so much! If only she wasn't that judgmental... if only she told me how great my bulge looked in my underwear like you guys did, we would have opened up a new level of fun as a couple.

That’s so true in so many relationships. Judgement of another persons sexual desires and being selfish receiving without reciprocation. As well as a partner ignoring the others sexual desires and not offering/actively participating. Yet they would be so offended if a partner/spouse went online and built friendships or cheated to have their needs met. I believe it’s tough with a lot of mixed feelings when you have to have your needs met behind a partners back, but a partner should be that…a partner. And, when they judge or don’t support/help fulfill your needs that is on them. So if you have to hide stuff cause you can’t/don’t want to make a relationship change don’t judge yourself. I think it’s good to try and share a gear fetish with a partner…if they have a negative reaction say “It makes me feel good and I like them.” And if a negative reaction ask “why does it bother you? I support you in what you like.” And if the negativity persists then don’t rock the boat if you don’t want to but don’t feel badly about loving what you love to explore.

 

[FlexibleFlirter]

My boyfriend is completely aware that I wear thongs and g-strings every day but has lost interest in them himself recently.

I got in to them after buying some for him to wear as a sexy surprise for me after getting home for work; however, that stopped a while ago.

I initially started with jocks because I needed something to give a bit of lift to my tiny ass at the time. I then progressed to thongs after starting the gym now having an excuse to show it off. Strings were a novelty but occasionally dabble.