Why…..is it??!!

[Socrates]

I occasionally post pics of myself here. I wish I could post more. But some things hold me back. Then I wondered about others here. There’s something holding us back. Probably fear of being doxed/outed.

I’ve seen online p@rn and these people can do it and they too have family and friends.

What is there….actually….. to be afraid of??!!

shouidnt we just be able to be ourselves?

second to that….. why do we post so much here about swimwear? Yeah, I adore swimwear. But 95% of the time I’m wearing underwear. I’m scared to ‘show off’ my underwear here. Which is a pity, because it’s pretty……racey……

please feel free to message me on this for a more detailed discussion.

 

[t&glvr]

I see no reason to hold back from posting underwear photos…this is “underwear” & swimwear guys.
id love to see your racey underwear collection

 

[Thonglover88]

Hmmmm I used to think the same, but I’m protected by my username and what’s the worse that can happen? Someone i know sees me in sexy undies, then that raises the point of what where they doing on this site anyway?
give it a go and see what the reaction is like

 

[Beach guy]

I agree with Thonglover 88. P⁰

 

[Beach guy]

I am just a technology limited PhD when it comes to posting photos or sending photos.

 

[Redsucked]

I am just a technology limited PhD when it comes to posting photos or sending photos.

Go for it anyway!

 

[musclethong]

I occasionally post pics of myself here. I wish I could post more. But some things hold me back. Then I wondered about others here. There’s something holding us back. Probably fear of being doxed/outed.

I’ve seen online p@rn and these people can do it and they too have family and friends.

What is there….actually….. to be afraid of??!!

shouidnt we just be able to be ourselves?

second to that….. why do we post so much here about swimwear? Yeah, I adore swimwear. But 95% of the time I’m wearing underwear. I’m scared to ‘show off’ my underwear here. Which is a pity, because it’s pretty……racey……

please feel free to message me on this for a more detailed discussion.

First and foremost, be yourself. Life is too short to spend any of it being what others want; it's your life, not theirs. If there are people in your life that keep you from being yourself then you don't need them.

Secondly, just be cognizant of your privacy when you post things online; don't show your face or anything to identify yourself. That is, if you're concerned about being exposed to anyone or want to keep this private. Regarding the people that do porn, their family/friends either know about it or those people don't care if they find out, or they cross their fingers and hope they won't find out It's a personal choice.

A word on dox'ing... this is nothing more than bullying, which ironically people categorically denounce. The notion that someone's opinion or actions should be silenced just because they do not agree with the popular opinion is moronic and contrary to the principles our country (speaking for people in the USA) was founded on. It's also abuse of power/popularity and everything that's wrong with the "influencer" culture propagated by social media. People need to do more thinking for themselves and remember that it's ok to disagree; our differences are what make us stronger when we work together.

Anyway... so post! Post all you want!

 

[Nudenarizona]

I’m at the point I don’t care who sees my posts anymore!

 

[Redsucked]

I’m at the point I don’t care who sees my posts anymore!

And I really appreciate everything you post!

 

[Urik]

I’m beyond the point of caring anymore. I’m so tired of being restricted and not being myself. I f do o appreciate when I receive positive feedback. I love you all and I hope you feel the same.

 

[Socal2024]

I'm relatively new here and just have a few photos posted so far. While I see many posts of great underwear on here, I just post swimwear, since that is my new interest (must be the exhibitionist in me). I'm not concerned about anyone outside of this forum recognizing me from my photos. The only one who could is my wife, since she is the only that gets close enough to see the freckles on my butt or the contour of my bulge